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Id be leaving an anonymous letter for her husband. Mail it to his work address so u know he gets it. Poor man should know his wifes a cheating wh**e. Goodluck. Id probably also accidently find her car in a carpark and my key would accidently leave a big long deep scratch (or 2) up one side.
Id also probably post an adult add with her number attached.
Id also send her a massive glitter bomb as well just to make myself feel better.
But im a bitch.
Its probably better to take the hugh road.
I thought about it. At least at first. My husband had an affair too, and when I found out I was devastated. He worked with her for over 4 years!! My friends now see her more than they do me. It's easier, she doesn't have kids of her own.
I thought about doing all kinds of sly things. Little things where she wouldn't know it was me, but honestly, I know one day it will come back to haunt her. My ex husband will most likely cheat on her too, and if not, they deserve each other. They are both horrible people.
I know that I can look back with pride knowing I took the high road. I have something she will never have. Self respect, honesty, and I can sleep at night knowin that I have never treated anyone with as much intentional heartbreak as she has.
Be strong, be confident, act like you don't care about her at all. That will confuse her and hurt her more than any tyre slashing or graffiti ever will.
When I see her I just smile knowingly and don't say anything.
Good luck and I'm sorry you are going through this. Take care of yourself, the universe will sort the rest out. X
My Hubby didn't physically cheat, but there was messages sent between him and an old girlfriend of a sexual and personal nature. She was married with kids too.
I got my revenge on her, because it was easier than dealing with the problems in my marriage; I let her take 100% of the blame.
I have never regretted it, she knew he was married and yes, I know my Husband was at fault too, but I don't care I don't regret what I did to her.
Why don't you tell her husband? I don't mean as a way of revenge... But doesn't he deserve to know?
I let it go, the satisfaction of being the bigger person was enough. But I used to fantasize about the horrible things I would do if I was a bitch. These days, I couldn't give a ripped fig about that skank or my ex. I'm too busy enjoying my awesome life their shenanigans allowed me to create.
I'd be more angry at my husband for betraying my trust than some s**t.
But maybe you are right, and maybe that's why it still affects me so grately, and prevented me from being able to forgive him, because I have to forgive her to be able to do that.
But in some instances not necessarily this one, women take the man back with barely a slap on the wrist yet want to kill the woman. It takes 2 to tango. Just saying if shes moving forward with her husband she needs to let her go too
I got revenge on both of them. I got every cent I could in my settlement and don't work so I have the kids most of the time, he has to pay a lot of child support.
That's good parenting 😑
Then you have allowed your children to think it was there fault??
I don't know about you but when my relationship ended i fully explained to my children it was because mummy and daddy weren't right for each other and if we were avoiding the home its because we didn't want to see each other and argue.
Not to a mistress but to my ex (who was on dating sites our entire relationship) I made lots of fake profiles on kinky weird fetish sites, and dating sites, listing his "interests" as messed up sexual stuff and left his real number saying leave a graphic message and his and email saying send me porno shots.
Maybe karma is waiting for the perfect time to happen and then boom right in front of you something happens and you get to smile.
OP from way back here: I ended up leaving him 2 years ago. I couldn’t move past it.
The revenge ended up happening naturally. I moved on, the kids are much happier and my boyfriend is gorgeous inside and out.
The mistress did me a favour really. I should thank her next time I see her around.
I also couldn’t help myself and congratulated her on her pregnancy and told her she is glowing (I knew damn well that she was not pregnant and had had a hysterectomy a few months prior, extremely overweight) meh bitch maybe but their actions scarred me for a good few years!
Well all the asian brothels between Brisbane and Gold Coast are still open so... no I haven’t set fire to them yet
I chose to take the high road and the best revenge is a good life. Saying that I did have a friend who's husband was cheating well his mistresses husband sent a registered letter meaning only the husband could sign for it and told him what his wife had been doing with her husband...pure gold she got home all her stuff was on the front lawn, my friends husband came home and all his stuff was on the lawn too.
I do believe karma will bite at some point 👍
I hacked the Facebook page and changed her name to obscenities lol as well as changed their sexual orientation and a few other little truths lol.
If you have her mobile stick up a personal ad.
I ended up finding her husband on Facebook and sent him a message detailing everything that had happened over the last 4 years. She was pregnant at the time so not much was done, but at least he is aware. She's had the baby now and I think it might be my ex's, his name started with Jas and the kid has Jazz... I know she's living a miserable existence being in her marriage but still being in love with my ex. Suck shit b##ch... I hope you know the same pain as I do after you came between my marriage and hurt my kids. Oh does it feel sweet 😈