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Twice a day for both of us. I thought this was basic hygiene??'!?? Far out.

 Nope, twice a day is ott
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 Why twice though? If you shower before bed why would you need it when you wake up?

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 Twice a day is way over the top
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 Because tbh I take a shit in the morning and don't feel right not showering afterwards. Also need to wash away sleep etc on my face so may as well shower. There is no way I wouldn't shower at least twice. That is so dirty.
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 Ok I don't get sleep in my eyes (you may won't to get your eyes check I only get that if I'm unwell)
Second of all I do my poo after dinner. And if I do do it in the day I use wipes to wipe anyways not toilet paper.
Third I'm not a sweater at all and I shower brush my teeth and get in bed.

Twice a day is over the top and terrible for your skins health

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 I shower twice a day and my skin is just fine. Honestly, each to their own. If you showering once a day works for you, fine! If you wanna shower twice a day, also fine! We are all different, why does everything have to be turned into a bloody debate?
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 depends where you live and what u do all day

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 Showering strips the oils off your skin its so drying, if you want to be a wrinkled old prune before your time then continue showering twice a day. And who needs to have a shower after a shit seriously unless it's explosive
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 ^ it depends what you use on your skin, and depends on your skin type as to whether or not it's drying.
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 It's hot water that dries the skin. Plus the shit that's in tap water.
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 And I have oily skin.
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 Some people are smelly and need to shower twice a day.
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 I agree with you op, I shower morning and night, it is basic hygiene!
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People that don't shower before bed are gross!! Your sheets must be disgusting!

Omg, I thought u meant together😂 I was getting super jealous😜

Once a day. I might skip a day occasionally if I'm just staying at home all day and don't get a chance to tho

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All those who only shower every couple of days, or once a day, what about when you have your period? Or have had sex? Totally disgusting hygiene.

 I haven't had my period for 5 years now- but I shower daily when I have it.

After sex Sure but I have my shower then go straight to bed so yeah? Same same.


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 There are other ways of cleaning yourself besides having a shower.
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 There are other ways to clean yourself besides showering.
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 ^^how? a quick wipe over? Going swimming and using it as an excuse for not showering or bathing? The only reason people don't shower everyday is because it's pure laziness! Or the excuse that they don't have time. Get up earlier!!
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 Calm down. I shower once a day. If I have sex after my shower I wipe myself with tissues and wipes. It's not like I get showered in cum from head to toe.
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 Yes me too, when I have my period I shower too. Goodness relax
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 When you're on tank water in a drought you haven't got a choice. It's a shower every second day or a bath using the bath water the kids just used. We live in the bush and everyone smells the same. We even have a bucket of water we all wash and rewash our hands in. Some people don't know how lucky they have it so don't be so rude about it. A shower Every second day is not unhygienic. A shower once a week is.
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 Lol part of my laughs at the two a day crew. They remind my of a lot if people who do things throughout their day with zero thought of their own wastefulness. And if it's called to attention then go on to not give a shit cos they're selfish. F**k people sometimes is how I feel. We are just a disgustingly wasteful society. Where funny enough you're mocked for trying not to be wasteful
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I'm pretty bad but you'd never know it! I shower probably 3/4 times a week(always the days I'm working). I just don' thave time- and always wash my hair which perhaps some people don't? That makes it more of a headache for me. ! I wash my face every day though. My husband every day.

 5minutes? Yeah ok. you must be gross because you can't get much done in 5minutes if you are washing long hair. If I cared about your opinion I wouldn't have posted it. But I Get it, EVERYONE MUST say the same thing- once a day- my mistake! :)
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 Showering for 5 minutes is gross but only showering 3 times a week is fine?! Haha.
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 Being in and out of the bathroom in 5 minutes? You really must be clean right?? Honestly you are sad
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 My god that's filthy!
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Hubby every day. Me every second day at night time. Hygienically speaking the ideal is 1-2 times a weeks. Washing hands with soap is far more important than how often you shower. http://time.com/4259559/shower-soap-hygiene/

 1-2 times a week if you live in a very cold climate maybe. Imagine living in the tropics, sweating all day and showering that often? That is pretty gross by anyone's standards.
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Every day for hubby . He sweats heaps and is hairy.
Myself, every 2nd/3rd day.

 That is gross. Every 2nd or 3rd day!! That is extremely unhygienic.
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 I'm in water all day every day.
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 The last thing I want to do after 9 hours in water is have a shower
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 ^ if you mean because you're in a swimming pool every day, even more reason to shower daily!
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 I'm in a memorial therapy pool for 4 hours, then the surf for 2/3 hours then the therapy pool another 2 hours. Sometimes I'll jump in the shower for a quick wash off but other than that nope.

Never smell. Always clean.
Talk to me when you spend that much time in the water. X

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 **mineral
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 Are there chemicals in the pool? Shouldn't you be washing them off your skin? I used to swim laps every day and even after a shower my skin smelt of chlorine. And even though I always wore a cap, I couldn't grow my hair past my shoulders because the chlorine made it weak.
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 Yes when I worked in a chlorine pool that was my experience too. I use to do 30/35 hours in a chlorine pool and you can't not shower after or your skin is crazy itchy.

Mineral water pools iv never smelt like chlorine. (It's still in it but far less concentrated)
Yes there is still chemicals in the pool but there's chemicals in the moisturiser people use. The toothepast. Hex the shampoo and conditioner you use.

I can garentee I dont smell. And iv never washed my hair more than once a week except for when I worked in the chlorine (I would have conditioner lathered through my hair WITH a cap on AND avoid going under)

My hair is dry curly hair and does not respond to regular washing well at all

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Once a day for me, I can't wake up without a shower.
My Hubby, once a day if he is at work during the week and maybe once on the weekend.

1 night shower for me. I shower with my son so that I get a shower lol otherwise when he goes to bed I couldn't be bothered I just want to sit. My husband showers in the morning unless on night shift he showers before work.

Once a day. Maybe twice it's so hot in cq in summer. I have a friend thou who hasn't showered in days or even washed her hair in god knows how long when she redoes it during the visit it's like one big birds next on the back of her head. She's gross but I don't know how to say it

 Nest not next lol
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