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Are you for real. This is a CATFISH situation
Simple, tell her you can't give her any more money. She'll make it clear pretty fast what she likes you for.
Don’t pay don’t ever bring money into it until later. Get her genuine opinion and feelings. Don’t offer to pay bills etc
If she didn’t want your money, she wouldn’t have asked for your money.
I’m sorry but I think she is using you. The fact that you can’t be honest with her and say you’re struggling too says that you know, deep down, she won’t stick around if she thinks she can’t get anything out of you.
It sounds like you should be worried about getting a new job and supporting yourself not trying to buy love of a person who clearly isn’t interested.
Why do you like her? She sounds like an opportunist who takes advantage of people who fall for a pretty face and a sob story. Not worth your time.
Find someone who likes you for you, not your money.