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Well the dude would be getting on in his years now. What is he 61? Needs to get them out quickly before Greek daddy kicks the bucket. Be more understanding!
you need to have a brake in between them that's were shit goes wrong and compilations happen
I must be dumb coz i dont get the point? Your currently 4 months pregnant- hubby wants you to stay home next month (as in quit work???) and he wants 5 kids and wants to try again after your baby is born??? If that is right? I dont think its abuse- i think its something to discuss... most couples dicuss when they want kids, age gaps etc. Not sure what staying home for 36yrs means... im lost... sorry... hopefully some smart people will understand your post and help out
Medically it's best for both you and the future babies if you give yourself 12 months to rest and rebuild nutritional stocks etc.
It's not abuse, but if it's not what you want then you need to discuss it with your husband.
No of course not. If that's what hubby wants then that's what you should do.
I would leave home at home to babysit when the badly is a few weeks old. After the sleep at the time phase is up. Then tell him to times that by five and add vomit, shit, pee, sleepless nights, big food bills, expensive schooling, birthdays, parties, Christmases etc. or just estimate what it would cost you to have as many children as he wants and that will stop him. If that doesn't show him a show where they have plenty of kids and never get to go on holidays or do a lot of fun stuff because they cannot afford it. He may need to get an extra couple of jobs. Keep us updated please.
One thing I truly hate however is the attitude that women are supposed to be 24 hour parenting slaves and men can breeze in and out of parenting and should be praised for their miniscule effort. Hence hating the term babysitting in reference to fathers being alone with their children.
I'm not trying to correct you, or point out errors, I'm simply hoping that becoming aware of the language used can have a big impact in regards to changing this ridiculous notion.
I get you darl except we have 6girls all between 11-13 months apart yeh I get the home for 36 years not like you can go to work or have much of a life hay preg with one breastfeeding another chasing another kinder for another it's full on trust me I've 7 kids and prg with no 8.. We really didn't plan our kids to be this close it just happened that way yes there all really close and have each others backs. There all in primary school. Prep yr1,yr2, yr3, yr4, yr5, and one in kinder and one at home. Best thing you can do is talk to your partner tell him how you really feel about it. Some people are able to handle it and trust me it's full on there is never a dull moment 1 spewing 1 screaming 2 fighting 1 shitty nappy you only have 2hands there it happens at once best of luck and hope ur partner supports you as I do it on my own hubby truck driver