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Am I the only one who doesn’t enjoy oral sex?

Answered 7 days ago

I’ve been with 4 men who gave me oral, and it just bores me. I also received it from a woman. She was somewhat better.
I’ve been considering getting the hood of my clit pierced to help with sensation.
Anyone else out there a bit meh about it? I love the idea of it and wish I found it more pleasurable!

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7 days ago
My husband is great and he can make me cum almost everytime and is fucking great not lately but he used lick me and put a finger in my bum and it made me just explode it was an amazing orgasm the first time and I hope he does it again and again

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2 years ago
Got eaten out for near on 2 hours last night. Looooove it.

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2 years ago
HOW

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2 years ago
Very easily 😂 gotta mix it up, mouth then hands then both, toys as well like, ben wa balls during oral are my fave

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2 years ago
Wholly f I’ve been living in a bubble.

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2 years ago
How have you been living in a bubble? Lol

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2 years ago
Maybe one day I’ll meet someone with skills? One guy claimed he was renowned for giving oral. It was awful

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2 years ago
The ones who boast about their mad skills are the ones you know will suck. Find a young one (they are more likely to be happy to be trained) and tell him you will guide him. Move your hips around while he is down there, get him to try different things (I’m a sucker for a light nibble, gets me every time) and try a bit of finger banging.

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2 years ago
You need to move your vagina around

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2 years ago
I got really bored of it too until I found someone who knew what they were doing. Now if I’m with a man who has no idea how to go down on me I sit on his face and do all the work myself. He just needs to keep his tongue out.

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2 years ago
I used to hate it. Got no pleasure from it at all. And then met a man who persuaded me to let him have a go, and I was just sent to heaven. He made me multi orgasmic, could keep me coming and coming. Both with oral and with missionary position sex
Men vary massively in skill.
If they are useless its quite unpleasant, and if they are good its unbelievably fantastic.

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2 years ago
I used to hate it with my ex. He wasn't bad but it used to take me forever to cum and I'd worry I was taking too long and I'd stop enjoying it because my mind was in the wrong place.
My partner now is black with big lips and holy hell I cum after about two minutes. I swear it's those big lips! This guy is seriously talented! Lol

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2 years ago
I’m not a huge fan. I had one guy who was amazing at it, I must say that was good but he had a micro Penis so I’m not sure there would be many guys better than him lol.

No I mean my husbands good at it. I just prefer giving head or sex, or even sometimes I find a sensual massage more stimulating than oral.

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2 years ago
They need to suck on your clit and finger you at the same time. It's so much better than normal sex

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2 years ago
My hubby only does it when we are blind drunk so I wouldn’t really know.

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2 years ago
I like it!

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2 years ago
I have to really be in the mood for it. Not a fan

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2 years ago
They are clearly not doing it correctly