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Help,mother brings twice convicted pedo back home against my will! they refuse to leave!

Answered 1 month ago

Mother is on mortgage title as 1/3part owner, they refuse to leave. The pedo jailed twice,cheated on wife,committed fraud selling his mother inlaws house from under her. 2nd jail time was only 10mths?!! WTF. The wife/mother said qoute in 1 of or 4 confrontations "I will anyway choose said person over u all"!!. They are hiding in a fake front Christian appearance(they all do!). We can't afford to sell and start again atm. What can we do to stop him from threatening us and keep our kids safe? Has physically threatened his own daughter and baby in her arms(caught and saved on phone) to beat her and the rest of us too. We don't know legally how to deal with this crazy situation.

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1 month ago
If he is a convicted pedophile he will have conditions of not being allowed near children so phone the police as it is a breach of being a Registered sex offender and apply for a protection order and ouster order at same time

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1 month ago
Yes this! He shouldn't be living with children. This is usually a condition of release, especially if they are ankle monitored etc

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1 month ago
Well it states this in the legislation so why she hasn’t gone to the police is beyond me. I would never let a pedophile near my children or a mother that associates with them and a court will order a protection and ouster order via private application. On an urgent ex-parte basis.

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1 month ago
Go speak to the police to see if you can get him removed and possibly getting a dvo and restraining order placed on him. Then it’s time to see a lawyer about how to sell up and don’t tell her where you have moved to. It’s a bit hard to grasp the dynamics of the family situation and I’m guessing it’s so you aren’t identified. From what I’m reading it’s yours or your partners mother and you are a mother/father of the children that your concerned about.
You could also speak to some local women’s refuges so you or your wife/partner can get out for now with the kids safely and then you all move back together after it’s all sorted.

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1 month ago
Seek legal advice

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1 month ago
Go to police get ivo