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Husband wearing womens underwear.

Answered 4 days ago

12 months ago my husband started wearing women's underwear. He says he isnt gay and everything I have read seems to indicate that alot if straight married men do this. It bothers me even though its not about me and i want to be supportive. We have been married 12 years and I want to just accept whatever is thrown at me and i love him. I dont even really have a question. Just wondering if anyone else has this going on at home cause I cant talk to any of my friends about it

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4 days ago
Sexy sounds great to me ! What does wear ?

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15 days ago
Everyone has their own kinks. If you have a solid 12 year relationship I wouldnt let this damage it. If it is a sexual thing for him (and he is honest with you and himself about his sexuality) then it's just his thing...

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12 days ago
This!

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12 days ago
That’s good to hear ! My husband wears my underwear and he also has his own women’s underwear too. I have bought lingerie for him and I think it’s great and very sexy and yes he is a real man too. It started ages ago when he bought sexy underwear for me and then he started to wear it. He wear knee high boots mostly riding style and sometimes gets dressed in sexy lingerie and high heeled boots and wow the sex is fantastic as he really turns me on
Yes go with it’s grest 👍

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14 days ago
I honestly think I would be freaked out too.

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14 days ago
My husband has such a sexy bum I wouldn’t care what underwear he wore. As long as he’s a masculine male I wouldn’t care really (but that’s me personally)

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14 days ago
Each to their own.

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15 days ago
I don't see any problem with it. Are you able to tell us what bothers you about it?

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15 days ago
Go with it!

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16 days ago
I am with someone who does this when he gets the opportunity we have talked and like your husband he isn’t gay but my man is bi sexual. In terms of the underwear he likes the feel and softness but ultimately likes the forbidden/naughtiness nature