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Husband wearing womens underwear.

Answered 3 days ago

12 months ago my husband started wearing women's underwear. He says he isnt gay and everything I have read seems to indicate that alot if straight married men do this. It bothers me even though its not about me and i want to be supportive. We have been married 12 years and I want to just accept whatever is thrown at me and i love him. I dont even really have a question. Just wondering if anyone else has this going on at home cause I cant talk to any of my friends about it

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3 days ago
My wife actually got me into wearing panties. Now I wear them everyday.

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7 months ago
I am with someone who does this when he gets the opportunity we have talked and like your husband he isn’t gay but my man is bi sexual. In terms of the underwear he likes the feel and softness but ultimately likes the forbidden/naughtiness nature

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14 days ago
I wear women’s knickers , started by wearing my wife’s and she was the one that asked me to put some on to see what they looked like , she just loves it , and yeah I was turned on by how good they felt . I now have a selection of my own that I wear more often than not , and when my wife knows I have them on let’s just say we have a good time .

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1 month ago
If he's wearing your panties ....I can guarantee he's seeing a working girl who offers a strap on service or even sucking strangers off in public bathrooms. (During his time at work) It's diffinately a sexual thing if you said put on a bra and a slutty little skirt with thigh high stockings he would be keen as...as long as you acted as if you were into it he wouldnt be shy at all...so train yrself to be open minded and non judgemental...im sure he still loves 100% he's just having urges to try new things .sorry but no sugar coating here it's the truth. Good luck

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1 month ago
Wow....that seemed like the most accurate reply in all this i would have never guessed myself but there you go

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7 months ago
My husband has such a sexy bum I wouldn’t care what underwear he wore. As long as he’s a masculine male I wouldn’t care really (but that’s me personally)

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1 month ago
Hun it's the masculine ones that love wearing panties etc the most wink wink

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1 month ago
Had an old boyfriend who used to steal my lacey underwear & put in on pretending to just be funny but I bet he still does it. He was so repressed, living his life just the way his family told him to. I'm thinking it was his way of rebelling against the prison he created for himself.

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2 months ago
I wear women’s underwear too and yes it feels good too and my wife buys some for me too and she likes the feel of it too

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2 months ago
I have to admit honestly I would leave. 12 years, 20 years ... life’s too short and I just think in the end it will lead to other issues and in the end you would of wasted the best years of your life with a confused person who doesn’t know what they want or what’s important.

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2 months ago
I wear panties my wife doesn't mind but doesn't care for it just because a man wears women's panties it doesn't mean he's gay it's the fabric that we love when it touches the skin

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7 months ago
Sexy sounds great to me ! What does wear ?

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7 months ago
Everyone has their own kinks. If you have a solid 12 year relationship I wouldnt let this damage it. If it is a sexual thing for him (and he is honest with you and himself about his sexuality) then it's just his thing...

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7 months ago
This!

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7 months ago
That’s good to hear ! My husband wears my underwear and he also has his own women’s underwear too. I have bought lingerie for him and I think it’s great and very sexy and yes he is a real man too. It started ages ago when he bought sexy underwear for me and then he started to wear it. He wear knee high boots mostly riding style and sometimes gets dressed in sexy lingerie and high heeled boots and wow the sex is fantastic as he really turns me on
Yes go with it’s grest 👍

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7 months ago
I honestly think I would be freaked out too.

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7 months ago
Each to their own.

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7 months ago
I don't see any problem with it. Are you able to tell us what bothers you about it?

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7 months ago
Go with it!