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Husband had sex with me while i was asleep leading to baby

Answered 1 month ago

I am very overworked and needed sleep. My husband tried having sex with me. I said no I'm tired and ovulating so don't touch me. I fell asleep and woke up to his cum in me. I then got pregnant from it. I am resenting my husband now. Any advice? Baby is 3 and I am still hurt.

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1 month ago
I listened to a pod cast recently about a bloke that had spent a lot of time in golburn jail , although he was in there for drugs he spoke a lot about blokes in there for raping their wives, the issue seems that sometimes even when half a asleep a cuddle can end up with us giving off the vibes that we are up for it.
Sounds like you need some intense therapy, I would hate to think you resent your child given this is how the child was conceived.

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1 month ago
That's rape. Your husband just raped you. I'm so sorry

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1 month ago
Go see a counsellor. By all legal definitions your husband raped you but how you view that is up to you. You would be dealing with the trauma of at least having your boundaries broken. I’m sorry this happened