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Do you/your husband wear weddings rings? If not how come

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3 days ago
No we don’t
Work related reasons
He works with power tools and they could snag and literally rip his finger off
I am an RN and I don’t even want to think of the bacteria under a wedding band after a days work

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8 days ago
We had matching tattoos put on our fingers, now we're divorced.

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2 years ago
anyone working as a sparky, or with various rotating machines (lathes, conveyors, etc) will usually not wear rings to avoid injuries. Some minesites have policies regarding jewellry, and so you will often find people wearing their wedding bands on a necklace instead of on their finger.

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2 years ago
17yrs married now. We did in the beginning but I've never been a jewellery person so I stopped wearing mine. He couldn't wear his as it was uncomfortable for work and had to take it off all the time. I got a tattoo ring later on and absolutely love it. I get lots of comments on it all the time.

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2 years ago
I do mostly. My husband never. My husband does very physical work and works with all types of machinery and it could be dangerous. He use to wear it when we went out but now the ring won't even go past his knuckle. It doesn't bother me at all. I wear mine most days unless I'm working or playing sport. Some days I just forget to put it on. It's only a ring after all. I know my husband and I are both loyal to each other.

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2 years ago
If i go out I do. Hubby only does sometimes but that doesn't bother me. We know we're married

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2 years ago
My husband cheated on me. We had a huge fight and I threw our rings in the backyard. A crow came and took his lol. We stayed together and 15 years later my house got broken into and my ring was stolen ( I couldn’t wear it at work). So no, we don’t wear rings.

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2 years ago
My husband has thrown so many away I now only buy the cheap stainless steel from Michael hill or Prius’s

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2 years ago
Er what? Why does he keep throwing them away?

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2 years ago
My husband wears his all the time, I can't wear mine all the time b cause of eczema flare-ups

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2 years ago
Same here. But it’s only just started happening to me

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2 years ago
No because we're both sleeping with other people- we don't acknowledge this though

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2 years ago
So you have proof he has been sleeping around? Why not just have an open relationship?

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2 years ago
Scandalous! 😱

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2 years ago
I don't. I'm sure people will comment shit about a Greek sugar daddy here but my rings are so expensive. I have a 2ct solid princess cut that sits quite high and my band is full of diamonds so I don't wear them to work (child care) and then honestly I just forget to put them on haha

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2 years ago
I had this problem, so I got a plain gold band for every day wear- feel funny not wearing one

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2 years ago
You rings are so good you don't want to wear them....seems legit.

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2 years ago
Correction, I don't wear them to work. As I said it sits quite high and I run a nursery so I don't want to cut them with it. It happened with my own child and then I just forget to put them on most of the time. I don't need to wear them to know I'm married. It ain't about the rings.

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2 years ago
2 carats and working in child care

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2 years ago
Where did I say that I paid for my own ring?? 😂😂😂 Bitches be so jealous.

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2 years ago
My husband does his

I lost 2 and one broke.
So never replaced them.

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2 years ago
It that a sign?

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2 years ago
That I shouldn’t wear jewellery? Yes I headed it for years, tried to ignore it for wedding rings but it won me over for good.

Back to no jewellery for me. It gets in the way of life.

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2 years ago
We don’t, but we never exchanged them in the first place.. I don’t know what it is, but I have never liked the idea of rings, let alone marriage rings.

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2 years ago
How closely they resemble shackles (albeit teeny tiny ones for your finger)?

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2 years ago
I wear my wedding band daily, but not the engagement ring because it just gets in the way. It’s more for special occasions . My husband has a wedding ring but never wears it because he hates how they feel. He got our children’s initials tattooed liked a band around his ring finger instead

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2 years ago
We don’t wear them - we find them uncomfortable

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2 years ago
What monogamy?

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2 years ago
Lol

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2 years ago
No as I don’t fit it anymore. He doesn’t because of his work, could de-glove his finger.

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2 years ago
What does he do?

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2 years ago
We both wear ours all the time

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2 years ago
Husband all the time, I take mine off to sleep and then forget to put them back on a lot 🤣

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2 years ago
Both of us all the time since our wedding day 11 years ago.

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2 years ago
11 years here too!

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2 years ago
I wear mine always. Unless I'm making meatloaf. My husband can't wear one at work due to safety concerns. And he was forever losing the one I gave him at our wedding. So he's since gotten a tattoo on that finger of the date we were married. Fuck that sounds bogan. Ya know what, fuck it, we're bogans.

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2 years ago
That is actually very sweet

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2 years ago
I have our wedding date tattood inside my ring finger and I love it!!! Still. 9 years later. Just annoying cos it wears off.

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2 years ago
My hubby lost his week after we got married

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2 years ago
Mine are on all the time husband wears his at home but is not allowed to at work it's a safety concern

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2 years ago
Same.

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2 years ago
Yes both of us do always with the exception of when we are handling raw meat.

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2 years ago
Yes at the moment I can’t as I started swelling in my hands but I brought a larger temporary ring to wear

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2 years ago
Only if dressing up for a special occasion, and we actually remember lol. Hubby used to wear his to work but take it off at home, but got out of the habit and doesn't bother anymore. I didn't wear mine when I was working as I did aged care (didn't want to lose it or scratch someone with it), and since becoming a sahm I still don't wear it for the same reason. We know we are married so it doesn't bother either of us. It's a running joke to tell the other person 'look I'm married today' if we actually wear our rings.