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Ladies, are you sexually satisfied in your relationship?

Answered 2 days ago

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ANSWER
5 days ago
I am too fat to have sex with apparently. I am a size 10 with a great rack. Interesting!

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2 days ago
He is probably having an affair.

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2 days ago
Ups and downs, but overall no. I would love it to be more consistent and about mutual satisfaction every time. Isn't that the point of love making after all. Else I fell it's just "fucking", a race to get your personal gratification without care much about the other person...much like a "fuck boy" just wants to shag and move on to the next. I think women get "fucked" a lot more than "made love" too. Most men I reckon don't care (or given up on caring) and just want to get off. How much more happy and deeper would relationships be if mutual satisfaction was the norm?

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3 days ago
Absolutely not. When we do have sex it's extremely one sided and that's when we do!

There is no intimacy, no kissing, no foreplay.
He pops my legs up or puts me in doggy to make himself cum and that's about it.

I have sex dreams nearly every night, even during the day I think about sex. I think about being touched more than anything things like having a hand on my breast, fingers running down my body.

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5 days ago
Definitely.
We communicate well and are open and honest with one another. We have known each other forever and we’re both divorced when we got together. His ex wife was dull in bed and ridged. I was always very open sexually even in my teens and 20s and loved to try new things. He had a few health issues that affect his sex life because of pain and he saw sex as an obligation you do once a week. My drive is much higher than his and it took a solid two years to get him around to seeing sex as something we should be having fun with... now we are both very happy and in a great place.

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5 days ago
It’s so nice to hear people that are happy sexually in their relationships. Kudos to you and your partner 👍🏻

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4 days ago
I like the whole comment except the ex-wife comment. It feels a little disrespectful and misplaced to me, even though I sense you are explaining him. Everyone is different and every female at that, why not make the comparison comment on yourex who you had a relationship with instead?

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4 days ago
Yes 100% although I think my husband would probably prefer to have it more often and I'd be happy with less often. But I do enjoy it. He's not selfish in bed & we know what each other's likes & dislikes are.

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4 days ago
He puts in no effort at all and my entire sex life is basically one sided maintenance designed to keep the peace. I hate it. I resent him for it. A lot of the time I know it’s coming so I have a few drinks to get through it.

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4 days ago
Sometimes it’s great sometimes it’s not , sometimes I’m into it sometimes not . Overall, I’m satisfied.

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4 days ago
I want and crave sex and he just doesn’t give me enough and I love giving head and love the taste of cum but he doesn’t have a high enough sex drive and can only manage a short sex session which is just not enough I mean I just get going and he cums and that’s it no more! I need more ?!

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5 days ago
Yes. My husband is deployed for weeks at a time, so when he's home we go at it like rabbits.... Probably why we have so many kids now 😂

Sometimes I get frustrated when hes not here and I want sex, but it's worth it for the anticipation aspect.

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5 days ago
No