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How often do you give hubby a BJ?

Answered 4 days ago

With busy work & family life, often I'm too tired for sex by the end of the night. I usually end up giving hubby a BJ about once a week which can be fun for us both, just wondering what everyone else tends to do...? Everyone has a different "norm" in their own relationship but just curious how that compares to other busy mums?

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1 year ago
It used to be just about daily. Then he stopped going down on me so I stopped going down on him. He complains about it, but hasn't put 2 and 2 together that he gets one whenever he goes down on me. Some men are hopeless lol

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1 year ago
Hahaha. No clue have they ? ๐Ÿ˜˜

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1 year ago
Same here, no BJ's for him, 'cause he doesn't go down on me. I'm sick of giving & not getting any back. He hasn't made the connection either, even though I've spelt it out to him. It's funny also, as his favourite saying is "well if you've noticed ..... blah blah blah "

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1 year ago
Op of this comment- yup, I've flat out told him I'll give when I receive and still nothing. He always has a reason "my tongue is sore where I bit it, my neck hurts, I'm tired etc." I don't give excuses, I just say I will when you do ๐Ÿ˜‚

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4 days ago
haha, Im a man and i go down on my wife at least 3 times a week and sometimes every day and she does not give any in return, no does not go down on me at all!!!!
After just being married she stopped going down on me so I decided to really give her a great time going down on her every day for weeks with no return, then stopped but had to start again as I was missing her cuming all over my face, still nothing and its now been years since she has gone down on me, but she still orgasms when I go down on her, so who has no clue?

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4 days ago
Every other day , usually when he's getting out of the shower before bed . In the morning on weekends

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1 year ago
I think it is important to keep DH from jumping the fence so I do it 3 times a week.

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1 year ago
Do you ever do anything else instead of sucking him? My husband gets a bit bored when things become "routine".

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1 year ago
Youโ€™re a moron

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1 year ago
If your husband jumps the fence hun it's not because you don't give him head

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1 year ago
You are doing it to keep him home
Youโ€™re an idiot

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1 year ago
^Agreed. Why would she have to 'bribe' him to stay faithful? That's sad

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1 year ago
I love giving my husband BJ's, easily could do it 1-3 times a week. I've slowed up quite a bit though, to every month or two. This is because he basically never goes down on me, only maybe once a year. Even though I've said I'd like it once a month, he keeps telling me "Yep, your turn next ......"

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1 year ago
69

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1 year ago
69's are overrated, I'd rather lay back & enjoy receiving it, not trying focus on cumming myself & getting him there too, you know, trying breath with bit & pieces in the way

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1 year ago
Not as often as he'd like. He's too big and my jaw starts aching very quickly. But I recently had an epiphany, I can get tips on how to do it from watching gay porn. Specifically man on man because the guy sucking dick has an intimate knowledge of what feels good when he gets his own dick sucked. Since I figured that out, I've given only one blow job, but it was the best one yet ๐Ÿ˜‰
It used to be I'd suck him maybe once or twice a week in the lead up to sex. But now, armed with my secret porno ideas, I'll be on him like white on rice.

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1 year ago
He loves giving me oral. So i always return the favour. Nearly 4 times a week

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1 year ago
Itโ€™s the only way he can climax. I like doing it, makes me feel powerful.

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1 year ago
Nope not after he put on so much weight and wonโ€™t do anything about it, I find it gross. I resent him for not wanting to look good for me because I used to enjoy giving it to him.

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1 year ago
Hardly ever. Poor bugger ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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1 year ago
Rarely. We'd rather have sex.

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1 year ago
Never. LOL.

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1 year ago
Your poor guy!

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1 year ago
It's not your husband so why should you care?

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1 year ago
Me too- rarely, once in a blue moon. It's not the end of the world. We a beautiful relationship.

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1 year ago
^same same ๐Ÿ’•

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1 year ago
Not as much as I should. When I do it's before sex, hubby takes forever to cum and my jaw aches and aches. So I do it then we finish off with sex.

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1 year ago
I love giving head and my hubby loves getting it. I would say normally once or twice a week.

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1 year ago
OP here, same with us :) Though I'm sure hubby would love it even more hahaha