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Am I holding out on sex or is this enough?

Answered 1 month ago

I have been having an affair with a man for the last 2 years and he is now saying we don’t have sex enough. We do it three times a week. His wife only has sex with him once a month. My husband and I have a very active sex life and normally make love every second day. I can’t keep up any more with my affair partner than I already am. Am I being too prudish with my affair partner or is this enough?

No judgement please.

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ANSWER
1 month ago
This can’t be a real post - surely?

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1 month ago
Haha if I had an affair he would have to shower me in jewelry and marry me and worship me. No free rides here lol

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1 month ago
Ditch the affair.

ANSWER
1 year ago
OMG your a machine - both physically and mentally.

REPLY
1 year ago
Love a set of car tyres made from your pus as clearly, you cannot wear it out.

ANSWER
1 year ago
Couldn’t he get a second lover?

REPLY
1 year ago
I asked him today and he said he has been trying. I am going to start helping him find another lover

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1 year ago
Ha tell him to go to a brothel

REPLY
1 year ago
^He is already visiting a brothel, every time he visits the OP.

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1 year ago
the OP is free and dumb. He would have to shell out plenty at the brothel.

ANSWER
1 year ago
"No judgement please'' Rofl

ANSWER
1 year ago
Don't think what you do with your husband is "making love" when you're doing what you're doing

REPLY
1 year ago
It is making love. I love my husband

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1 year ago
Surrrrre. That’s why you’re cheating on him, right?

REPLY
1 year ago
You don’t love your husband you selfish woman

ANSWER
1 year ago
🙄 O M G ... Stop the world i wanna get off!

ANSWER
1 year ago
Is this for real? Surely not!
Babe you need help.

ANSWER
1 year ago
G r o s s

ANSWER
1 year ago
Hope your husband finds out

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1 year ago
How would you feel if your husband cheated on you and you didn’t cheat on him

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1 year ago
I hope you are using protection.

I hope he is worth the angst and hurt it'd cause your husband if he found out.

FYI of course we're gonna fucking judge the shit outta you!! You are a deplorable human shitting all over your union with your husband.

You need a fucking hard slap, bitch.

ANSWER
1 year ago
Wow! I just had this chat with my affair partner and we both agreed on ‘catching up’ fortnightly. How on earth do you manage 3 times a week! Are you retired?

REPLY
1 year ago
I work out of the office for half days which gives me time on my “lunch break” to eat him up

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1 year ago
Disgusting.

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1 year ago
I agree with the earlier commentator, maybe he needs to get a second mistress! Oh and your poor husband 😞

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1 year ago
Yes it is very good advice

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1 year ago
Jesus

REPLY
1 year ago
You're on the wrong post hun. You want the Israel folau post 😂

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1 year ago
🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮👏👏

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1 year ago
Lol

ANSWER
1 year ago
Nom nom nom where's all the bites?

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1 year ago
🐠🐠🐠