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Can you be happily married and attracted to another man

Answered 3 days ago

I have been married for over 20 year my husband was working long hours until recently he cut his hours back to spend time with us . I find myself looking at a guy at work .

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3 days ago
Yes! Attraction is normal, but maybe your marriage isn't so happy if want to cheat? But as I once was told it doesn't matter where you get your appetite, just come home for dinner.

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19 days ago
Of course! We recently pretended we were our best friend couple when we had sex with the lights off and it was quite the turn in surprisingly!

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21 days ago
I havent been with my partner as long as you but I openly admire other guys.

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1 month ago
Yes you can but it’s really not worth cheating. Focus on fixing your relationship first if that doesn’t work separate at move on from there. Nothing good comes from cheating.

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1 month ago
I agree. This could be a symptom that something is wrong in the marriage. Try and feed that energy back into your husband.

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1 month ago
Of course you can be attracted to someone else. Acting on it, including flirting or getting too close, is a different thing entirely.

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1 month ago
I think it's ok to glance at the menu, just not eat from it.

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1 month ago
I've been with my husband nearly 20 years, I am sexually attracted to a younger guy at work, I have no idea why but I am 🤷. Just seeing him working gets me sooo hot. I won't act on it and the random thing is my husband is much better looking.