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Sexually frustrated & resenting my husband!

Answered 2 months ago

My husband is the only man I've been with, and I lost my virginity to him when we got married.

Before marriage, my husband had dated a few girls and had a normal sex life (including sex in outdoor locations and public areas, though not infront of people or anything).

I am getting really really frustrated now though - I am craving a taste of the excitement that I never had before marriage. I am jealous that my husband had it and I never did. Where it leads to resentment is because while our frequency of sex is fine (sex usually twice a week, and I'll give him a blowjob once or twice a week as well), it is BORING. I am craving something more adventurous and to push normal boundries but my husband doesnt want to do anything more than good ol' normal married sex.

How can I scratch my itch for something a bit more adventurous, or get some real excitement and thrill, while still respecting what my husband wants?!

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ANSWER
2 months ago
Wishing I could suck another guys dick just to see what it is like with someone else...

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27 days ago
If you want to do this, then you need to communicate what you want to your husband, find a suitable candidate and suck that dick like you deserve to!

I’m in a similar situation and we are working through a similar thing now. I married my high school bf and now I’m in my 30s, I want to try it all while I’m still young.

ANSWER
2 months ago
Same room sex or partner-swapping?

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2 months ago
I would love the same-room stuff (or partner swap if right people!).

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2 months ago
Yes, we like to have same-room experiences...and experiences in zoom watching other couples have sex while we have sex. It really does ‘scratch that itch’ and we have no desire to swap or swing with other people as a result.