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How can I increase my sex drive? I feel like a dried up old bitty

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Been married for 30 years now and my husband and I only have sex once every month or so - I want more but just don't feel like it.. what can I do??

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2 days ago
If not already start an exercise plan or program and there are lots available on the internet and some are free ! But being active helps every part of the body and mind and if you feel good then you might even wear something sexy when no one is around

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2 days ago
Maybe get out and exercise or take a fitness class, I know when you feel good, you will want more sex, and hubby's love seeing their girls in activewear.

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2 days ago
Might be worth having your hormone levels checked. And a specialist womens doctor is usually best for this. When even small reductions exist in certain hormones, it can have quite a significant impact on things like sex drive. And modern hormone replacements are effective and easy to take.

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22 days ago
When I dont feel like sex but know I should have it with my partner coz it’s been a while I watch porn nothing to serious but it usually gets me going

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22 days ago
Make sure you have time together to spend on each other. Massage, talking about fantasies, sexy clothes and that type of thing. The main thing is to put in a concentrated effort.

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22 days ago
Tell him. Try to initiate more.
Sexy clothes. Work out. Nice make up. Nice hair. U know make him wanna bang you