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Whats the naughtiest/kinkiest thing you've done while married or in a committed relationship?

Answered 27 days ago

My husband and I are getting bored with our sex life and need ideas that happen in real life - not just porn! - to spice things up beyond dress ups or role play kinda things. What are some of the naughtiest / kinkiest things you've done while married or with someone?

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6 months ago
Sex in kmart change rooms
Sex at a friends house (bathroom quickie)
Sex on the car bonnet
Blowies while his driving
Fingers me while I drive
All these “naughty” acts while result in better bedroom activities

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6 months ago
What is it with kmart change rooms? I often wonder as there is only a curtain. When I worked at Kmart I think I found about 15 couples shagging in the change rooms.

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6 months ago
Not my response, but the Kmart near me has lockable doors.

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6 months ago
Yes ours too

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6 months ago
Any wonder Kmart is doing so much better than target these days!

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6 months ago
So gross germs 😭

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6 months ago
You try being the one having to clean up after 🤮

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6 months ago
Curious. With the change rooms and quickie do you actually cum? Or is it just sex?

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27 days ago
Finish your guy into your mouth to catch it

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27 days ago
Same-room sex with another couple. It was ah-mazing!

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27 days ago
I've always wanted to do this...

how did you organise it? Was it with friends? (How do you go about bringing up the topic?!)

tell us more!

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1 month ago
Nothing. I think I must be a bit boring! Haha

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1 month ago
Went to dinner and brought an remote controlled vibrator. Wife went to the restroom and inserted it and we later went to the bar with it inside her.

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6 months ago
When we went to the movies I wore a long skirt just as the movie started I gave my hubby my knickers that I took off just before we went in to sit down... just a bit of fore play

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6 months ago
The old ‘meet a stranger in a bar’ role play was awesome.

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6 months ago
How far did you take that?? Did you just chat to someone?

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6 months ago
I think she means her and her hubby pretended they didn't know each other. Modern family, Clive and Juliana style.

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6 months ago
Yes sorry I meant we went out seperate and picked each other up at the bar. Took it to a hotel room.

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6 months ago
Rimming or anal play with fingers then build to anal whilst your hubby slams your pussy with a sex toy at the same time

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6 months ago
I bet that left you with 2 gaping holes 🤮

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6 months ago
Yeah, be careful girls, anal = shitting yourself pretty much all day everyday for the rest of your life once you reach a certain age. Its not sexy then. Im a nurse, I think there should be an education campaign about anal sex and the consequences as one ages. Relationships get very strained when ones wife starts dripping poo. Men leave.

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6 months ago
Yep sounds sooooooo sexy......not 😂

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6 months ago
Swinging.. love it and it's made our relationship stronger 12years on!! (Been married 20) Never get bored with such a variety and you'd be surprised how many couples do it!

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6 months ago
OP here - how did you find couples to do it with?? Were they people you know?

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6 months ago
Red Hot Pie - find couples there

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6 months ago
Adult match maker for us.. got brave and went to a swingers party.. no pressure there and alot of fun got to meet like minded couples and took it from there.

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6 months ago
No one we know knows our secret. They'd be horrified but it's our business, it works for us and we're happy. We also go out of town.

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6 months ago
Rimming. Sex toys. Sex in the swimming pool.

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6 months ago
Nothing better than a tongue up my date