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15 Sexy Resolutions for 2021 – Spice up your sex life!

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15 Sexy Resolutions for 2021 – Spice up your sex life!

15 Sexy Resolutions for 2021 – Spice up your sex life!

So, most of us don’t ever stick out new year’s resolutions! We set these goals to lose weight, live better and be healthier. Usually, a New Years’ resolution involves giving up something you enjoy and becoming stricter in a particular area of your life. Well, why not go in the other direction? Have some Sexy New Year Resolutions that are all about pleasure! Let 2021 be the year to set some sexy resolutions for yourself and also with your partner!

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Sexy Resolution 1. Get out the fluffy handcuffs! 

Put the fluffy handcuffs to good use, and enjoy restricting your partner as you please them or switch around and be the one being handcuffed! Either way, it’s fun to experiment with the power play. See how much it turns on you or your partner?

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Sexy Resolution 2. Get Vocal! 

Pucker up the courage and voice to your partner some of your sexual needs and desires! Open up the conversation and share with each other, your sexual likes and dislikes. It is really easy, especially in a long term relationship to get comfortable with each outer and almost get into a routine when it comes to sex. So by starting a conversation, you are helping start the process of spicing things up for each other!

If you are stuck with ways to get started, maybe try a fun, but dirty card game:

Lovehoney Oh! Kinky Confessions Truth or Dare Card Game 

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Sexy Resolution 3. Make some time, just for you.

Masturbation can feel self-indulgent and for good reason. It is about indulging yourself and giving yourself pleasure. Make some time to explore yourself and what is pleasurable for you and what isn’t. Who knows, the discoveries you make, you can pass onto your partner so they can learn all of your special buttons!


Sexy Resolution 4. Splish Splash 

Usually sex and water don’t mix, but just add some silicone lube and plenty of pleasure is to be had! Shower, Bath, Pool or Spa. You have plenty of options. There are also a ton of sex toys now that are waterproof! So, get down and dirty in some water and have fun!

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Sexy Resolution 5. Listen to audio erotica

So, this is something that is a bit different. But there have been studies that have shown that women get more arousal when listening to erotic sotires. There are tons of different erotic podcasts available, so try curling up in bed and listen to one for 20 – 30 minutes, before inviting your partner into the bedroom?


Sexy Resolution 6. Focus on Foreplay 

Foreplay can last a long time, it can start hours before sex. So start teasing each other. Send dirty texts to each other, kiss and hug each other a little bit longer and let the tension build through the day. You can really get creative, and it’s quite possible you will experience a higher level of pleasure from your efforts.


Sexy Resolution 7. Shh! Keep your mouth shut! 

Get kinky and have some fun by either quietening your partner or yourself. Experiment with a ball gag or just make a commitment to stay silent. If you haven’t ever used a ball gag, you can get some that have breathing holes that come in a variety of different sizes.

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Sexy Resolution 8. Play out your favorite fantasy!

If you have had a chat with your partner already and opened up about what both you like and disklike when it comes to love-making. Then why not play out either you or your partner’s ultimate fantasy. Yes, you might need a few drinks to get over the nerves and pucker up the courage. But why not? You never know it may build up trust and intimacy between you and your partner.


Sexy Resolution 9. Try an adult board game! 

Board games aren’t just for kids! There are some really kinky and fun adult board games now! It’s a great way to relax, have a bit of fun and a laugh with your partner.

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Sexy Resolution 10. Play around with temperature! 

There are some amazing sex toys available now that let you have some fun with temperature. Glass Toys can be used to room temperature, but you can also warm or cool them. Have fun experimenting with different sensations and see what turns you both on?

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Sexy Resolution 11. Outside the bedroom! 

The bedroom is usual to place for love-making, so mix it up and have fun outside the bedroom. You will be surprised how much being in a different room or space will spice up your sex life! Don’t rule out going outdoors either!


Sexy Resolution 12. Masturbate next to each other 

Okay, so this one is pretty intimate and vulnerable. But, it’s a great way to learn more about each other as well. Your partner can observe and learn what you like.


Sexy Resolution 13. Relax! It’s time for a massage! 

Giving each other a massage is sensual and intimate! After a long day, what could be better? Well, you can experiment with melted candle wax! It smells amazing and feels amazing as well as you have it rubs all over your body, essentially acting like a moisturizer.

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Sexy Resolution 14. Experiment with a penis pump

If the thought of your partner’s penis getting bigger sounds interesting, why not have a look at a male penis pump. Basically, a penis pump is a cylinder that you place over the penis. Literally, with the suction you can draw blood into that particular area, so the penis will get bigger and harder. Sounds interesting hey? Why not see what happens but using it on a regular basis?

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Sexy Resolution 15. Invest in sexy lingerie 

it can be hard to spend money on things like lingerie when there are always bills to pay, but every now and then you need to treat your self! Lingerie isn’t just for pleasing your man, a sexy piece of lingerie can make you feel beautiful and confident! Show off to your partner and surprise him with a sexy outfit!


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