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When you’re in a relationship, one of the worst things that could happen is when you caught your partner cheating — and how you’ll find out.

If your partner tells you about someone “you should not worry about”, chances are — “you should.

Well, some Reddit users have learned it the hard way as they reveal how they found out about their SO cheating on them.

Read through til the end for the top 5 revelations about cheating partners that we think will make you hate them forever!

The Phone Call

I got a ridiculously irate phone call one morning from some woman asking why I kept texting her boyfriend, and that I was ruining their family.  Her boyfriend was my husband.

Via Reddit

The Receptionist Put Her Foot In It

I called my girlfriend at work and the receptionist asked ‘Is this her boyfriend, Dave’
‘No, this is her fiance.’
I’d had suspicions for a few months before that but this was the clincher.


My girlfriend and her boyfriend drunkenly stumbled into a bedroom and started making out on the bed.

That I was in.

Via Reddit

Face Off With the Husband

Not sure who I am in this story. Worked with this girl, different departments huge company, we got friendly hooked up a few times. So out at a bar. I turn around and am face-to-face with her. Without missing a beat she introduces me to her husband. I don’t know how but I played it cool.

Via Reddit

He Got an STI

I caught my ex when we were both standing in the examining room, getting his “uti treatment.” Doc came in and said ‘Gonorrhea’. He lied for a whole 2-3 months I imagine. Even lied about how he got it, tried convincing me he swiped his penis in some mystery fluids in a gas station toilet (what the fuck).

When he realized I wasn’t fucking stupid, he tried to drink random bottles on the doctor’s shelf. He started hitting himself. He fell on his knees sobbing and tried grabbing my hands and begging for me not to leave.

He threatened murder suicide that entire night, and assaulted me for close to 9 hours when I was trying to pack my bags to leave. He choked me in the driveway.

I just spoke at his sentencing this Thursday. He is a convicted felon now. I hope he’s grown from this.

Via Reddit

Who’s Marissa?

I caught my boyfriend of two years. He had asked me to proof read his paper on his Mac and the text messenger popped up in the right hand. He was sitting in his bed texting some girl “goodnight I love you” while sitting right next to me in his bed. I deleted his entire paper, wrote “who’s Marissa?” saved it and told him it looks great and left.
She was his girlfriend of 8 years who lived next to his parents 2 hours away.

We Both Were On Tinder

That awkward moment when your both dating for 7 months and then you both find each other on tinder close to you 8 month mark. It was kind of hilarious because we both were like, “hmm that kinda checks out… wanna see other people?” And so we both broke up but still stayed friends and kept out friend group together even till today.

Her Lover Wore a Pink Nighty

We were about 6 months in to living together and already mutually feeling like it may not last. Came home from work one day and saw her sitting on the couch with a guy who was wearing her nighty. A pink nighty. Drinking coffee. I said “Oh. Hey. “ I walked by them, got a beer, and joined them in the living room. “So, what’s going on here?” I asked. “This is Paul. We just met at the bike shop” she said. “And it looks like you slept together. “ I said. “Yes.” She said. And Paul then introduced himself, and somehow we got to talking. In a matter of a few minutes Paul and I ended up going to the store, got more beer and hung out at the bike shop. Became good friends. Neither of us were interested in the gal anymore. Good times!
Via Reddit

Potential FBI Investigator?

My ex husband actually took out the ribbon from my old typewriter and painstakingly copied down all the letters until he had the contents of what I had last typed on it….a letter to my boyfriend in another country.


Dated for 2 years until one day, out of the blue she says she’s not happy anymore and breaks up with me. It sucked but I figured it was for the best if she wasn’t happy.

About a week after we had broken up I saw her at the bar with some guy who she sheepishly admitted she was on a date with. Later that night I end up standing next to him ordering drinks. He apologized to me for the awkwardness.

“Yeah, it’s just weird since we’ve only been broken up for a few days and she’s already dating.”

He pauses “…..a few days? She and I have been seeing each other for like three months now.”

We stared at each other for second. And then my ex comes running up to pull him away from me. He shrugged her off and told her to go fuck herself and then left the bar.

That’s how I found out my ex had been cheating on me for 3 months before apparently guilt took hold and she broke up with me.

Update: I bumped into the other guy a few months later at a bar and we actually talked about it. It was weird hearing about it from his perspective. In his mind he had thought she was just really flaky but after speaking to me it just all clicked for him. And we went through some of the times when he couldn’t reach her because she was with me and vice versa. Not sure how I didn’t pick up on it. Either way I’m happily married now and I think she had to move home and live with her mum.

Via Reddit

Hilariously Stupid

My super genius ex wife bitched about the cost of our joint cell phone bill. She told me I’m using it too much. I never used it except to call her phone which was free. So I looked over the bill and found the number to the dude she was cheating with.

Jesus Christ Kate!


Woke up, she’d gone to work.

Opened up her laptop to use facebook.


Dick picks from her ex and conversations with other dudes about waiting for me to fly out of town so they could fuck. Standing tall and confident at work meetings and press announcements was fucking tough after just reading that.

Few weeks later got anonymous messages apparently she been playing up for 2 out of 4 years. She never admitted to that.

Jesus Christ Kate, what a fucking waste of my time i can never get back.

Via Reddit


Walked in on my girlfriend while she was having sex with another guy. “What are you doing here?!” she says. “You gave me a key, remember? I ended up not working today and wanted to surprise you.”

15 years later she reaches out, leaves me a message that she’d like to talk. I figure she’s doing some 12-step thing or something and wants to make amends.

Nope. She wanted to try and sell me Amway.

Via Reddit

Technologically Caught Red Handed

“We were going through a rough patch that had lasted a couple of weeks. I was a bit suspicious and looked on the ‘Find My Friends’ app. She was located somewhere where I’d never heard her talk about. I left work early and drove there and waited. Two hours later, she and her boss walk out kissing and cuddling on the street. One phone call later to his wife, my ex gets sacked, the boss is divorced, and the company breaks up (it was husband/wife own and operated).”

Via Redditor TonelessMoon

His Mistress Told Me

“His mistress told me at the wedding of a mutual friend so that was nice. I held my cool until we left, I wasn’t giving either of them the satisfaction of seeing me look like the crazy person or ruining someone’s big day.”

Via Reddit


She Had a Baby 12 Months After We Saw Each Other Last

“I know this is cliché, but coming home from a 12 MONTH deployment to a BLACK baby when we’re both white were strike one and two. Strike three was telling me she had black relatives (whom I’ve never met) so that could be what happened, sure. Doesn’t matter what excuse you, have there isn’t a magical 12 month gestation period. Makes me very fucking angry.”

Via Reddit

I Took a Photo of Them Together and Sent Them to Her Mother

That day was a disaster! The weather was rainy, and my girlfriend stayed at home because she didn’t feel well. I ran to work, but once I stepped into office, I understood I forgot my phone charger at her place.

I tried to catch a taxi, but due to the weather conditions, there were no free cars. After twenty minutes of waiting, I managed to find a car and reach my girlfriend’s place. I ran into apartment shouting ‘Honey, how are you? I forgot my charger…’ but the house was in silence.

So, I went to her bedroom to see whether she was ok and saw her with another man. What did I do next? I took a photo of them naked in the bed and sent it to her mother. I also plan to share it on social media, so our friends know what a whore she is!

Via Reddit


Now, that hurts! Have you been cheated on? How did you find out?

25 People Tell How They Caught Their Partner Cheating

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