Are You Frugal or Cheap? Which One Are You?

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Are You Frugal or Cheap? Which One Are You?

Trust us: there is a huge difference between frugal and cheap!

We use the word “frugal” quite a bit here at SAHM, but how do you know if your frugality is really just you being cheap? With jobs getting harder to come by and money getting tight, the concept of being frugal is something that gets thrown around all the time. Now, it’s easy to just be cheap while using frugality as an umbrella term for everything you do, but there’s a lot more to being frugal than just buying the cheapest everything.

So what IS the difference? Are you frugal or cheap?

What does being frugal mean?

According to the dictionary, frugality is defined as “the wise and intentional use of money.” The key word there is “intentional,” and I think that’s what really separates the cheapskates from the “frugalers” (which should totally be a word). In my own life, frugality is learning to get the most out of each and every dollar with a specific plan in mind. It is the deliberate decision to be prudent and wise with spending.

And what is being cheap?

On the other hand, when you’re cheap, you’re just reluctant to spend money at all, even when it’s on something that you really need. You could use other words such as tight, miserly, and stingy, but they all describe the same type of person. Most people who are “cheap” are actually selfish and can even be dishonest if it means saving a couple of bucks.

Why? The only thing cheap people care for is keeping their money to themselves despite the possible consequences on other people (or even on themselves).

Let’s put it to some examples to really see the clear difference between frugal and cheap.

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1. Food

A cheap person will buy the food that costs the least, even if it means disregarding all nutritional and health impacts of doing so. A frugal person will prepare a food budget, take their health into account and weigh the pros and cons of spending a little more on something more nutritious.

So a cheap person will probably buy canned food good for a month while a frugal person will spend on fresh fruits and vegetables and figure out how to make food last longer.

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2. Eating Out

A cheap person will also go out to dinner all the time, but rarely tip for good service using the excuse of not having enough money. On the other hand, a frugal person will plan for the coming month to see when their budget allows for eating out. Of course, the frugal person understands the value of money, so he or she will probably tip well!

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3. Purchasing Items

A cheap person will buy something on sale even if they don’t really need it simply because it’s cheaper than it usually is. A frugal person only makes intentional purchases based on planning and necessity. They may buy a cheaper item, but only without sacrificing quality.

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4. Savings

A cheap person also does not think long-term. They would rather buy water in plastic bottles every day than buy a single glass or stainless steel water bottle. But a frugal person thinks not only of long-term savings but also of the environment.

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5. Giving Gifts

Oh, and cheap people are notorious for showing up on parties empty-handed! Frugal people, on the other hand, even with a limited budget will try their best to come up with a gift, whether bought or made by their own resourceful hands.

A frugal person would also rather buy something more expensive if it means better value.

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Simply put, while a cheap person only looks at the financial aspect of things, a frugal person uses a more balanced perspective, taking many factors in mind. A frugal person asks many questions. Why this is cheaper? What is it made of? Will it be better for my family? Will this benefit other people? That is the difference between frugal and cheap.

Frugality is more than just saving money. Finding a good balance between the two can be hard, especially when you see your bank account dwindling between paychecks.

However, the most important thing to remember is that your health and comfort, as well as those of your family and of other people, are more important than having a few extra dollars at the end of the month. You work hard for your money, so you should be able to get a sense of fulfillment out of spending it.

In the end, frugality is really about finding the centre line between being cheap and the opposite side of the spectrum, which is spending extravagantly. The key is proper planning, research and budgeting, and with those, you’ll find that your family has more money for “comfort” items at the end of each month.

So, which one are you?

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Jody Allen

Jody is the founder and essence of Stay at Home Mum. An insatiable appetite for reading from a very young age had Jody harbouring dreams of being a pu...Read Moreblished author since primary school. That deep-seeded need to write found its way to the public eye in 2011 with the launch of SAHM. Fast forward 4 years and a few thousand articles Jody has fulfilled her dream of being published in print. With the 2014 launch of Once a Month Cooking and 2015's Live Well on Less, thanks to Penguin Random House, Jody shows no signs of slowing down. The master of true native content, Jody lives and experiences first hand every word of advertorial she pens. Mum to two magnificent boys and wife to her beloved Brendan; Jody's voice is a sure fire winner when you need to talk to Mums. Read Less

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