When you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, it can start to get boring and predictable. Doing something exciting with your partner to get your heart pumping and release some of those chemicals that get you excited about life. When you stimulate your body, your mind and emotions get stimulated too. Go to a theme park together, or go see a really scary movie. Act like kids and have fun.
Text Something Sexy
Every now and then, send a flirty, sexy text message to your partner to let them know that you’re thinking about them. It’s a great way to put a smile on his face, and who knows? Maybe it will turn into something more steamy. Delete afterwards, you don’t want your Mum or boss to find it later…..
Have a Good Talk
Long term relationships often start to look more like business partnerships than a loving, sexual relationship, so get intimate now and then to rekindle some of those feelings you both had when you fell in love. Every week try to have a real conversation that goes beyond the day to day stuff. Reflecting on the good times that you had when you first met or talking about your past can strengthen the bond between you and remind both of you why you’re still together after such a long time.
Show Your Gratitude
Sometimes it’s the little things that can make us feel unappreciated, so a heartfelt thank you now and then can really go a long way. Just show that you’re grateful for everything he does.