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How to introduce sex toys during sex! Get your partner in on the action…

Most of us have a tried and tested vibrator that we love to use solo, but using sex toys when you are intimate with your partner can really amp up the orgasms for both of you. If your partner unexpectedly whips out a very intimidating veined 20″ red dildo of cervical death during the middle of sex, it’s probably going to kill the mood and maybe have you worried for their mental health and thoughts of were they procured a weapon of vaginal destruction. Well, it doesn’t have to be that way, there are some tips and tricks for introducing sex toys during sex.

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Communicate!

So, pretty obvious. A key step is to talk about it and have an open and honest conversation about it. If you or your partner aren’t going to be comfortable with introducing sex toys into your relationship right now, it’s better to talk about it outside the bedroom first. If you are feeling pretty nervous about bringing up the subject, try for sayings like “Hey, have you ever heard about couples doing XYZ, what do you think about that?”. That will give you a good indication of initially how your partner feels about it.

There isn’t anything wrong with a rather blunt approach either. “Hey, I’ve been thinking and I would love to start to incorporate some sex toys into our sex life as something new to try, what do you think?”

Whenever both of you are ready to add some extra spice into your sex life, you can start to introduce toys. Some people will do pretty early on in their relationship while others will wait a lot longer, if at all. There is no right or wrong way to go about it.

The key thing to take away is that it’s a conversation to have. So, listen and respect what your partner has to say and go from there. It’s not really about telling them what you plan on doing, rather seeing if they would be keen for it in the first place. Don’t just focus on your sexual needs when you talk about it, focus on intimacy together and that, it can be pleasurable for the both of you.

Don’t Overthink It 

One of the most common worries is that sex toys will always give bigger and better orgasms, and means that your partner is easily replaced. There is no substitute for human contact and intimacy. So re-assure your partner that they won’t be replaced. Sex toys really are to just amp up the experience for both of you, while still being intimate and even romantic. Sex toys are increasingly common to be used between couples. It’s meant to be something that you both can enjoy. A compromise might be to get a toy or use one of theirs that’s focused on their pleasure, an ease in approach…maybe lay off the pegging kit on the guys but (pun intended).

So what if your partner isn’t really into the idea? 

So, a possibility is that you get the courage to talk to your partner and they really aren’t comfortable with the idea. If you guys are good with communicating with each other, you may find out why. It could be past experiences, trauma or just fear of the something new.
It’s always good to have a think about how important it is to you, to introduce sex toys into your sexual relationship. There are plenty of ways to spice up toy-free sex or even have a look at tantric sex. Why not just splurge on yourself and get some new sex toys for yourself?

You’ve gone shopping, now what?

So, it’s time to bring your sex toy into the bedroom. A good tip is to keep it light hearted and fun. Talk to each other, even dirty talk. Talk to your partner about how much pleasure they are giving you and how they are making you feel. A sex toy just adds to it, it’s not the entire experience, it’s just like sprinkles on the top of a cake.

We have a great article that lists the best online adult shops in Australia. Why not offer your partner to sit next to you and go online shopping, if not no problem, just ask him to hand over the credit card and shush him away. Below we have recommended 5 of the most popular sex toys for couples, these ones might be a great place to start.

Top 5 most popular sex toys for couples

1. Svakom Ella Love Egg Vibrator 

Price: $179.95

The Ella Love Egg Vibrator has the potential to bring you both a lot of fun in the bedroom. This vibrator is covered in a ribbed texture for extra stimulation and can be controlled in three different ways. The retrieval cord has the control button on the end but via Bluetooth it can be controlled via the app. This vibrator has 10 different vibration modes that can be controlled via an app, so why not let your partner have some fun giving you some pleasure? It’s also got an extra vibration setting called climax mode. This is a fun toy to use during foreplay or whenever the mood strikes you both, why not try it discreetly outside the bedroom? Kinky! Read More > 

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Lovehoney Classic Magic Wand Couple’s Gift Bundle 

Price: $200.80

This 3 piece set is designed for both the lady and the man! It includes the popular Lovehoney Classic Magic Wand Vibrator, a G-Spot Attachment and a male masturbator attachment. The magic wand is a powerful mains powered toy that gives you intense vibrations and stimulation, more than what a battery can give. The G-Spot attachement is easily attached to the wand and can also be used for anal play. The male attachement is ribbed, designed to give extra pleasure. It all comes in a lockable case too, so safe from the kids going through your draws! You won’t have little Jimmy bringing your toy to Christmas dinner. Read More >

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Ohmibod LoveLife Finger Vibrator 

Price: $89.95 

It may be small, but it’s perfect for some sneaky vibrating pleasure during foreplay. It’s compact and easy to use, just slip it over your hand. It’s made with soft silicione with 5 different pulsation options. Have fun teasing each other with this fun finger vibrator. Read More > 

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Nexus B-Stroker Vibrating Butt Plug 

Price: $189.95

If both of you are comfortable with pleasure via your booty, then have a look at this vibrating butt plug! It’s designed to feel like a rim-job. It comes with a remote control, so your partner can get involved too! It has 3 different speeds and 3 different vibrating patterns. Read More > 

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7 Inch Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo 

Price: $54.95 

This beaded dildo can be used in more than one way. It’s shape is designed to pleasureable internally but also used for massage. This isn’t just one for the ladies, it can also be used for anal pleasure as well. Glass sex toys can be used with all types of lubricants and you can also have fun playing with different tempretures. Read More >

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We hope this article has helped steer you better on how to introduce sex toys during sex! Good luck 🙂

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