10+ Best Australian Dating Websites

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10+ Best Australian Dating Websites

One of the best parts about online dating is that it eliminates all that awkward tension, pressure and nervousness.

Which are the Best Australian Dating Websites? The ones that you can find what you’re looking for, whether that be marriage, a flirtation, a one nighter or just a friend. Plus someone local whom you can actually meet!

Online dating has come a long way from the ‘dirtiness’ in which it was perceived years ago.  Now MOST couples meet via an online dating app.

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It’s Easier to Meet New People Online

Online dating gives you a quick alternative and introduces you to loads of single people in your area that you may have never met otherwise. Not only that, but you know that they are ALL actually out there looking for someone. That means you don’t have to run the risk of approaching someone who’s already taken and get rejected.

It also makes the process of meeting people much easier and a lot less nerve-wracking.

AND… if you are a parent, you know how hard it is to get out and socialise – you are time poor – so this is a great way to meet like-minded people!

Online Dating Saves Time

Everyone is busy and it can be really hard to find time to go out and meet new people. Online dating gives you the opportunity to meet new people at your convenience. When responsibilities pile up at work or home, it’s easy to be consumed by everything going on and put your social life on hold, not to mention your dating life.

Thanks to online dating, you no longer have to do that. You can set up a profile on a dating site and browse around and answer emails whenever you have some spare time on your hands. You can do it early in the morning, late at night or even during your lunch hour. It really doesn’t matter.

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Online Dating Sites Help You Meet Like-Minded People

The best part about online dating, many people say, is that you can get a pretty good idea of whether you’d actually have a connection with someone before meeting them. Your online profile gives you an opportunity to express yourself, what you’re all about and what you’re looking for.

Online Dating Allows You to Avoid the Bar and Club Scene

Online dating gives you an alternative way to meet new people outside of the typical bar and club scene.

So if you secretly dread going out to loud bars and clubs on the weekends, online dating may just be the answer you’ve been looking for. There are some really good apps and sites for more casual hookups when you don’t have the time or money to spend in a bar or a club (or you’re just tired of the noise).

Online Dating Sites Save You Money
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Not only will online dating save you money but it’s actually dirt cheap compared to every other form of dating.

Now I’ve personally never been to a singles dinner or a speed dating event but I have friends who have and I’ve heard that they range anywhere from $60 to $100 dollars a night. And that’s just one night. What if you don’t meet anyone you really connected with that night? Are you going to drop another hundred bucks the next weekend?

Or perhaps you’ll just go out to a bar or a club another night and buy a bunch of overpriced ten-dollar drinks. With this in mind, you can actually save money with online dating.

You can get a membership to an online dating site for less than what you’d normally spend on one night out. Many even have free trial periods.

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So which Australian online dating site is the best to use?

Overall Online Dating Site Recommendation: eHarmony

eHarmony is an online dating website designed specifically to match single men and women with each other for long-term relationships.  I like that they can match you by age and your area.  They have a dedicated area for seniors.  The way they match couples is all science-based and are so successful they have patented the technology.  11,000 members have married through meeting on eHarmony.

Recommended for:  Anyone looking for a serious relationship, marriage and children.

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Hukup is a matchmaking engine and dating app in one. It caters to all genders and all orientations so you’ll definitely meet lots of interesting people. The possibilities of finding a ‘mate’ are endless! Just choose the criteria to be presented with profiles that match your choice.

Recommended for:   Individuals AND couples looking for hook-ups aged 18 years old and above.

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Elite Mate

Wherever you are around the world, Elite Mate has hundreds of thousands of interesting, hip, attractive single men and women to choose from.  It matches based on social habits.  Has more matching features than any other online dating agency.

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Best For:  Young people wanting to hook up.

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Zoosk was named the best dating App of 2016.  This matchmaking site is known for personalisation and matches you to your ‘perfect match’ through an algorithm which is said to deliver better dating matches in real-time.  It is also available in 80 different countries and has been translated into 80 languages.  So if there is a soulmate in the world – they will hopefully find that match for you.

Recommended for:  20 – 30-year-olds looking for serious relationships

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Plenty of Fish

Plenty of Fish (POF) Has over 3 million active daily users worldwide on POF, and offer free messages.  It has a bit of a reputation of being a tad seedy though…. But hey, if seedy is your thing, this is the place for you!

Recommended for:  35 – 50-year-olds looking for hook-ups

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Swindr is where to go for alternative lifestyle dating.  Into Swinging? Want to meet other couples that are interested in ‘Saucing Up’ their marriage.  Then Swindr is the App for you.  It finds other like-minded people in your area for meet-ups and more.

Recommended for:  Married Couples and Long Termers that Want to Spice Up the Relationship

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Gay Matchmaker

The leading online dating website for gay, bi, and curious men.  It is a men’s online dating site.  Gay men need love too!

Recommended for:  All men looking for love!

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Urban Social

Urban Social puts together sociable singles and like-minded people together.  It is free to sign up and you can instantly browse other Australian singles that are near you.

  • Is FREE to sign up
  • You can search via age or area

Recommended for:  Under 30’s singles looking for serious relationships.

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Another one of the reputable, larger online dating sites in Australia. Has a good selection process and is strict on members.  However, it does cost to speak to people and this can really add up!

Recommended for:  25 – 35 years looking for serious relationships.

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Oasis claims to be Australia’s Number 1 Free Online Dating Site, with 100% free to contact and chat with other members.  It has over 1.6 million members and is focused on the younger more ‘upwardly mobile’ set.

Recommended for:  Professional 18 – 30 year olds looking for a relationship.

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Adult Matchmaker

Adult Matchmaker is Australia’s largest online adult dating site for singles & couples looking for love or something a little bit naughty like a one night stand or swingers party. They have cheeky adult personals, webcam chat rooms and seek to hook up like-minded members looking for casual sex. Free to join.

Recommend for:  Couples looking for other couples (yep, swingers)

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Just Senior Singles

For the over 50’s set – a very old-fashioned, easy to use online dating website that seems priced well.  It is free to join but to access all additional features, you will need to become a full member.

Recommend for:   Over 50’s looking for companionship and long-term relationships.

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Elite Singles

For the fancy set.  Choice rates it highly as a reputable online dating website.  Elite Singles use a ‘Smart Profiling System’ to give you the best match possible

Recommended for: Highly educated 30+ year olds looking for serious relationships.

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Tinder is a ‘Location Based’ App that matches you with people nearby.  By swiping left (for no) or right (for yes) – the app will match couples that both swiped right.  Tinder has received some bad press in the past, more for the 18 – 25 market.

Recommended for:  18 – 24-year-olds looking for hook-ups.

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There Are Some Other Alternative Available Too. You Can Check Them Out at

Coffee Meets Bagel

Coffee Meets Bagel is an App that has been around since 2012. This App focuses on the fact that Men and Women approach dating in very different ways.  There is a #ladies choice function that gives women more control of their dating experience.

Recommended for:  Women looking for friendship first.


Bumble is similar to Tinder in that it is a location-based App that you swipe left or right.  The best thing about Bumble, as opposed to Tinder, is that you don’t just have to use it to find a date, if you just want to find a new friend, grow your social network or just meet someone for coffee, then this is for you! Bumble lets the girl have the first and final say – so it is safe to use!

Recommended for:  18 – 24-year-olds looking for friendship with the view to a relationship.


Happn is an App that finds the people you have met down the cafe, passed in the street or met once at a work function.  Once the Happn App has been downloaded, and you meet another member of Happn, it will ask you if you want to cross paths with them again.

Recommended for:  18 – 24 year olds looking for Hookups.

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