I keep catching My 10 year old son watching porn. How do i handle this? Found history on my husbands & I bedroom pc, the family pc & sons iphone. Started when he was 9, said friend at school told him to type in Vagina, u can imagen all the porn that appeared. I was in tears the 1st time, my husband was more disapointed. I tried to explain that this wasnt reality sex he was watching-they are actors. Explained u make love or sex when u & the other person love each other when ur MUCH older. I dont want our son to think sex is dirty bc that scares me too for adulthood. The last time i found it in his phone he said mom, whats the big deal? I said its very inappropriate for a 10 yr old. Im scared when the time comes to date (14-15) his hormones may be raging so bad he will be inapropriate with the girl even if she says no. Im so scared on how to handle this the correct way. I want to make sure my child grows into a healthy man with a "normal healthy" sex life. Any comments, questions or suggestions would be so much appreciated.