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Is it normal for my boy to wear girls underwear
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My son is 16 and likes to wear girls underwear is that normal
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9 months ago
When my son was 13 I walked in on him wearing one of my thongs. I didn’t say anything and just walked out. We never talked about it and he wore mine all through high school. I don’t think he knew that I knew except for that one time, but I was curious if it was a one time thing so I would peek at him getting dressed from time to time, and it would always be one of my thongs.
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8 months ago
How did this make you feel ?
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1 year ago
My 7 year old son likes to wear girls clothes including underwear. We are currently going through a state where he is finding they don’t fit as well in areas like boys clothes and undies do. I’ve just had to have the conversation that they’ve been made for girls who don’t have the same bits and body shape as you do. I’ll support him with whatever he wants to wear but it does frustrate me that we still have gender specific sections in stores…
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10 months ago
Where you from?
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10 months ago
Sydney Australia. You
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10 months ago
My mom used to buy me women's underwear all the time I wore them all through school and through high School when my boy parts started growing she just got stretchy satin ones.. wore them up until I was 22 I finally bought a guy underwear when I moved out and it was so hard to get used to them they didn't feel right at all I still don't like wearing them but I do
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10 months ago
Same here I loved it still do and I'm 44
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1 year ago
What is ‘normal!?
My (23yr old) son wears a mix of CK boxes, and black lacey satin undies.
My (14yr old) daughter will only wear men’s boxes, she says they’re the comfiest!
My (20yr old) son only wears boxes also.
My (23yr old) son wears a mix of CK boxes, and black lacey satin undies.
My (14yr old) daughter will only wear men’s boxes, she says they’re the comfiest!
My (20yr old) son only wears boxes also.
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1 year ago
Unfortunately these are all indicators of a very problematic environment, especially indicated by middle child trying to give the appearance of normality.
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10 months ago
Lacey?? Usually they like bikini.briefs
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10 months ago
Totally normal.. they are more comfortable and feel better.. perhaps but several.differemt.kods and styles see what he likes best
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10 months ago
Yes. Buy him panties if he likes them
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10 months ago
It’s definitely not normal, you need to have your son evaluated.
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11 months ago
yes it does not matter what God thinks or eany one I ben wearing wearing them for 55 years I no it is a sin but I don't care I love the Devil I am 65
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12 months ago
I mean if you want him to be a femboy, yeah sure!
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1 year ago
I think it's great weather it's normal or not he cares I bet he looks absolutely amazing in them. Good on him
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1 year ago
It's not typical, but some kids like to take on aspects of the other gender. Don't worry about it, but do talk to a counsellor if the idea worries you.
The most important thing is that your son knows you love him no matter what. Imagine if he tried to hide it or hated himself for it. That would be the worst.
Ps bras n things have a range of lingerie cut for men's bodies .
The most important thing is that your son knows you love him no matter what. Imagine if he tried to hide it or hated himself for it. That would be the worst.
Ps bras n things have a range of lingerie cut for men's bodies .
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1 year ago
FFS. You are the worst for suggesting this abnormal behaviour be enabled.
Forget a counsellor for her, all she needs to do is be honest with herself and her son, call him out and just say NO, STOP YOUR BS, it's not right or normal.
Forget a counsellor for her, all she needs to do is be honest with herself and her son, call him out and just say NO, STOP YOUR BS, it's not right or normal.
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1 year ago
Can you tell me more about your comment of B&T? I've been there a few times (1 time with partner, 2nd time on her behalf).
I wear undies (yes she knows!), with target brand size 18 fitting best (full le gth).
I wear undies (yes she knows!), with target brand size 18 fitting best (full le gth).
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1 year ago
Can I wear girl's underwear
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1 year ago
Yes. Underwear is underwear. Even many adult men prefer women’s underwear because they are cut better and more comfortable. Don’t read into it, just let him wear what he likes.
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1 year ago
But your balls hang out the side LOL
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1 year ago
Women undies are designed different,we're are his balls? Hope his not tucking his things under his butt,I'm 18 year old male and I think that's wierd,mabie he's homo
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1 year ago
Absolutely no problem at all. Let him. Even buy him some to show you support him. I think it's beautiful
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1 year ago
It's normal for kids to express themselves, through hair, clothing or music. It's their body, their choice unless it is causing physical harm in some way (too small or tight)
If you are concerned he might get bullied in school because of a clothing choice tell him to let you know if it ever happens so you can support him but I'd say its unlikely as most kids nowadays are very supportive of each others choices
If you are concerned he might get bullied in school because of a clothing choice tell him to let you know if it ever happens so you can support him but I'd say its unlikely as most kids nowadays are very supportive of each others choices
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1 year ago
Anything someone wants to do/wear is normal. Just let him be him
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1 year ago
I've put my 3 year old in his sisters undies when he has run out (11 month gap & same size). It's not really an issue until their package is too big to be contained in them, once they are too big I'd say it wouldn't be good for them as I'd imagine it would hurt or possibly could cause some damage. You can get girls boxers etc if it's the colours/patterns he likes. There is nothing homosexual about liking 'female colours/patterns', hell my housemate is as straight as they get, is 20yrs old and even he loves his pink beanie.
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1 year ago
Sorry but no!
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1 year ago
You set normal for your home. Maybe talk to him. As a parent they should talk to you and you should understand their reason. Maybe your son is exploring maybe he is understanding himself. Talking and supporting them in these teenage year is going to help you both built a strong bond as well.
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1 year ago
Remove the word normal. Try a problem. Then that is subjective. Problem for who? The underwear manufacturer? They don't care who buys them. Then it comes the boy. He obviously does not care they are designed for a different gender. So why should we care when he thinks it is fine. It is underwear. No one sees it. It makes him happy. Still think it is wrong? That is your prejudice. Do not force it on this boy.
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1 year ago
That would be a no from me. Girls underwear isn’t designed to fit boys and their packages. If he was little than that’s different, or if he has sensory issues and it’s a fabric thing. But at 16 I would be questioning why he likes to wear it.
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1 year ago
Doesn't if it wrong or right, he should have the choice and it shouldn't be a big issue or a taboo topic, my girls like wearing the boys undies. #wearwhateveryouwanttowear..
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1 year ago
Well, my girl grew up preferring boys undies and clothes , my boy preferred girls undies n shirts. Nothing wrong with it. They are normal adults.
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1 year ago
There is nothing to be concerned over. Boys can like things marketed towards girls and vice versa! Maybe he preferred that colour or picture. Children aren't making life long choices over their sexuality. They like something so they choose it.
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1 year ago
No. It's not normal.
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1 year ago
My 7 year old insists I call his jocks nickers and sits down to wee more often than not. He likes dolls but also trains 🤷♀️ his favourite colour used to be pink and now it’s yellow. He loves playing footy and his older brother knows not to tease him or risk being punched up! No labels here. I’ve asked him in gentle ways if he feels like a boy or a girl and he has looked at me like I was mad. I think it’s wonderful that kids feel safe to truly be themselves. For context I also have a 27 year old and the changes in attitude since he was the same age have been mind boggling yet very welcome.