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My husband doesn’t do it for me anymore.

Is anyone in the same boat? Sex is so routine . I feel bad but i always fake it and finish myself off when he falls asleep.


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Try to rediscover what you love about each other. Don't give up on your marriage ❤

You are doing yourself no favours faking it. If you want change, then talk to your husband and make change!

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Sex is so much more than just a physical act. Try to reconnect with your husband in other ways. Get a babysitter and go do something fun. Put more effort into having good quality family time, include the kids in a weekend activity ie bushwalking, relaxing at the beach, stay in for a games night etc whatever you will all enjoy. Shift the focus from the physical act of sex to rebuilding an emotional connection and the sex will get better from there. Marriage is a roller coaster with highs and lows, but if you’re committed and want to stay in it for the long haul you both need to put the effort in. Communication with your husband is key.