Pregnant at 43 after partner had vasectomy.
Answered 1 year ago
Blended family of 7. No kids together. He had a vasectomy early last year but I've just confirmed I'm pregnant. This is the last thing I want. I've got through a divorce, single parenting for 5 years alone before partner came along. We only moved in together 6 months ago. And I'm 43! All our kids are healthy. I'm working and I'm happy where my life is.
I haven't told him yet but I'm sure he'd feel the same as me.
I know babies are amazing! I loved the baby stage and watching them grow into their own people. But its had its challenges blending and I expect will do for a while. Nothing awful, just challenging. Adding another would be expensive and I worry itll bring resentment or worry to our kids.
What on earth! Can people tell me their stories if something similar happened and how you came to a decision and how it worked out. Thank you.
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But OMG i was so wrong! This beautiful little person is perfect and i have so much love for them and my life feels so complete and the other kids love the baby so much! In my personal situation, it was so right to have this little baby ♥ and they are so loved and wanted ♥
I am very lucky 💕
I wish you OP all the best in your decision making.
OP- you do whatever feels right for you and your family. Whatever decision you make I'm sure will be the right one for your family! Sending you love xx
My hubby is getting the snip soon so cannot ask, did you do the follow up semen test? To make sure it was all good? This has scared me haha. Good luck xx
Unlike my ex who would be spitting in my face while cornering me.