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I am married and we are TTC I only have one friend who lives in another state and I don’t have any family. I am looking

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I am married and we are TTC I only have one friend who lives in another state and I don’t have any family. I am looking for 30th birthday ideas for end of the year


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2 years ago
I understand not wanting to go out for your birthday because of unhappy memories, I am the same. For my last milestone my husband and kids took me out the day before my birthday as that way it could be a celebration but not on the day that gives me so much pain.
Maybe something like doing something on a weekend around your birthday would help or be better.
Recently I got the advise to take back my birthday as a way to step forward and create new happy memories so I am hoping to do that, I hope you can do this as well. Everyone deserves to be happy on their birthday :)

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2 years ago
Thanks for your opinion it is no different When it comes to Christmas happy to give gifts etc but for me I find it best to just skip those days completely hence me requesting no presents etc even if I have given you one. I am not sure taking back my birthday would help but glad it has helped you

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2 years ago
Dinner out. Anything that you want to try before baby? Pamper day. Holiday to see your friend.

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2 years ago
Honestly I am a pretty simple kinda women, seeing my friend would be nice but may not be possible due to state border closures and my husband is a bit funny about us meeting considering he has never met here and we have only ever talked online

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2 years ago
Sounds like a lot of excuses which shows deep down you just dont care. Why not tell him its ur day and and do what you want to do

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2 years ago
He wants us to celebrate but I am more then happy not to do anything

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2 years ago
Don't see how TTC is relevant. Like others have said. Night in the city with a massage and dinner out.

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2 years ago
I am just saying we don’t have kids still ttc so it not even like I have got any kids to celebrate with

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2 years ago
When you have kids your life changes a lot
Go out for your birthday and get drunk and have a good time

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2 years ago
What do you enjoy doing? Would you like to spend the day out exploring galleries or museums and then have a lovely lunch somewhere? Would you like to dress up and go out for a special dinner? Weekend away in the country? Beach getaway? Couples pamper day?

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2 years ago
What about dinner movie and staying in the city somewhere nice?

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2 years ago
Couples massage
Lunch cruise (if in Sydney look up captain cook cruises)
Wind down in the evening with movie and cake and some sexy time

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2 years ago
If u have noone just go out with ur partner.

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2 years ago
Thanks we don’t really do the whole going out thing especially for my birthday as I don’t generally celerbrate my birthday but he has specifically asked that we do so looking for ideas

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2 years ago
If you don't normally do it, then going out would be special 🤷‍♀️ Unless you guys don't actually enjoy it.

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2 years ago
The hard thing for me is I don’t like celerbrating my birthday as I don’t have any happy memories from them so I don’t see the point. I know my husband wants us to do something, just looking for ideas

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2 years ago
Ttc???

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2 years ago
Trying to conceive