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How do you keep your shit together?

Answered 5 years ago

I'm wigging out! I'm not going into particulars as to why, but I NEED to keep a cool head. How do you talk yourself down from an overreaction? I need to be a calm, zen, detached goddess. When all I want to do is be hysterical and upset. I've jumped to a conclusion and can't get down. Give me your calming tips please.


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5 years ago
🤪🤪🤪

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5 years ago
Glue and glitter ✨

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5 years ago
I go for a drive. Can’t message or call anyone and lose my shit then. When it’s really bad I go to the one place I know I don’t get reception and sit there for as long as I need, taking in everything around me.

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5 years ago
OP how are you doing? Are you ok? Lots of love!

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5 years ago
Thank you. I'm still upset but I'm trying to distract myself.

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5 years ago
Do you think he cheated? You can't stay a zen goddess through that. Continue wigging. I recommend a glass of wine 🥂. I have a nice bottle of riesling if your interested.

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5 years ago
I don't know what to think 😱 the man ties me in knots!

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5 years ago
I feel like i know you

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5 years ago
If you DO, please, bring wine and tissues. I'm losing my goddamn mind.

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5 years ago
Go for a walk. Any kind of distraction that involves physical activity really. But a power walk with some music blaring through my earphones is a perfect reset for me.

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5 years ago
Oh I second this! A walk gives you time to analyse the situation and helps you to not just react emotionally! Is helps me to fight in my head and rehearse what I want to say. And breathe it really helps to calm you!