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I had suspeted my wife had an affair, we talked about it and she said she had not, but in the conversation she said "I don't want to have sex with you anymore" this rattled me a bit to say the least. I don't really know what I could or should do bring her around and back having sex with me? Or maybe she is getting enough somewhere else even though it was said otherwise. Its a tough one I know, but do others have a similar situation?


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1 month ago
I’ve had affairs and lack of sex at home doesn’t necessarily mean she is cheating. The best way to catch her out is go through her phone. Check if she has downloaded the app kik, check her location history and check her deleted photos or even deleted emails. Cheaters get caught eventually it’s only a matter of time.

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1 month ago
It’s hard to check her phone as it is also with her even takes it to the bathroom and if by chance it’s left it’s locked completely

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1 month ago
I’ve lost all interest but still love my husband very much. Maybe age & hormone changes?

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1 month ago
Hmm. My take….which my husband would hate to hear…..I could honestly live without sex. I’ve got so many “balls in the air” and really sex is the last thing on my mind/priority. However because I know it’s important for him I try to have sex at least once a week.

So honestly, if she’s never been into having sex with you she mightn’t be having an affair.

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1 month ago
She was into sex but now not with me but still wants to live here

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1 month ago
Is she menopausal? Libido can disappear due to a few medical issues too - or maybe she’s feeling resentful or disconnected in the marriage. It could be a range of reasons, not just an affair. Maybe try to talk to her about how she’s feeling in general - it might not really be about sex.

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1 month ago
Thanks