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Call your local Domestic Abuse hotline or shelter. Their numbers, but not their addresses, should be readily available via the Internet or a phonebook. They will get you out, help you with housing, legal advice, and if necessary hide you from your abusive partner.
I don't have any advice but what shits me is no one is offering this woman advice (surely someone has some!) They would rather agrue about bs
Op call cps - or even help line they may be able to direct you into the right place
Good luck be strong you can do this xxx
I feel for you. I have lived with a damaged,depressive,narcissistic man for 20 years. Have you dared confront him over this behaviour? I have and things improve for a while, before reverting to learned behaviour going back to his incredibly dysfunctional childhood. Issues need to be raised and if he isn't willing to take responsibility then you and your children should leave. Kids are like sponges, they will learn that this is how relationships work, and apply it to their own future relationships. I wish you and your children all the best.
Take them with you when you go. Don't let him have access. That is easier said than done though. My husband wanted to see the kids to get at me. At first I let him see them, but I went too. I would meet him at a park for a few hours where he could spend time with the children. He threatened several times that he was going to get full custody, but at the end of the day he didn't really want them so nothing eventuated.
If your husband is different and would fight for custody, then you need to educate your child about communication that is inappropriate. Explain how it is inappropriate to speak meanly to another, this includes family. Explain there is no such thing as a secret between you and her and she can tell you anything. Then, just monitor how she goes with her visits with dad. Monitor her behaviour, and act if there are changes as this can be an indicator of trouble.
Im in exact same situation. Im planning eacape right now. Have a dvo put on by police. Really doesnt help. He doesn't care. Make a plan and escape be brave i know it is so scary
If you are ever scared call 000 on your phone.... MUTE it so you can't hear the operator calling out and they track the phone and send police x
Get some legal help.
Stay strong and good luck. Sorry I can't offer much more I've never been there but just remember you and your girls deserve so much more xxx
why call him DH ? sounds like you enjoy it