My ex left me when the kids were 3 and 4. We both had problems that needed addressing. But of course he blamed me. We eventually had shared care. Which worked out great for us. I get it does not work for everyone. Depending on your circumstances it might work for you. If he is abusive towards you and the kids, then no this would not be an ideal situation. If the reason is you don't love him anymore, or he is a cheater, consider it, (I think the courts now encourage it). Since I don't know your circumstances, shared care is great as you get a week to re-charge and maybe explore another relationship. My kids loved it, as they loved both of us and they had two birthdays, two Christmases, etc. They are now 29 and 28, no problems with them, well adjusted adults. If this is not possible there are many services out there that you can access and would be a great help. Don't just stay together because of the kids. Kids pick up on these things and will end up blaming themselves. You need to do what is best for you, then take care of the kids and of course yourself. Good luck!!!

I was 7 months pregnant and had an 18 month old and was sick of his lying, sick of him cheating and sick of being a punching bag. It was actually pretty easy to walk away once I made the decision to and I don't even slightly regret it. 3 years separated now and I haven't heard from him in over 2 years. It's been great

Try harder
Don't bee selfish
You did this

Ask yourself one thing. Is it better coming from a broken home or living in one? 😘

I was 6 mths pregnant with our 5 baby
My other kids were 18mths,3,7,16

My husband and I broke up when our son was 1. I found the separation tough and mourned what could have been, the lost opportunity of having more children together etc. I don’t think the break up was any worse or any easier due to the age of our son. I’m sure the breaking up emotions are the same regardless.
I also have the happily ever after life now.
Sending you love. Hope it works out for you and your children x

Not a decision to be made lightly. What’s he done, or not done?

I left the father of my first child when bub was just 1. I don't know how I found the strength but I did. It's in there. You just have to look. I don't regret it because I met my now amazing husband and we have 4 beautiful children together. The other guy did me a favour by being an asshole. I owe my fantastic life to him 🤣 Good luck to you and the little ones. Stay strong xxx