Sex is becoming a thing of the past?
Answered 2 months ago
Sex with my wife has become maybe once a month at the most. I have a high sex drive. I know she enjoys it but is always too tired. Every time i bring it up turns into a fight. Been married four years. Can only see it getting worse.
Any advice? I cook every night, clean, and I’m a pretty hands on parent. I’m so frustrated.
Have an answer?
I am the wife with the husband who is happy for once a month… it’s the pits.
I have communicated and communicated and communicated. There have been fights and tears and in the end I just gave up. I bought toys and I deal with it that way. We are still very affectionate toward one another though and our relationship is great aside from the lack of sex.
We are also at four years.
I am hoping doesn’t get any worse thb.
So, of you want more, give more. Precisely half. Of everything.
I’m glad my partner doesn’t pressure me for sex or make me feel guilty for us not having sex very often at the moment.
I see you are sharing the domestic load. Does she work? Is the workplace toxic?
If sex is something she really does enjoy and the relationship itself is loving, I’d be supporting her to look at other causes.