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I thought my partner was my safe place.

Answered 2 years ago

He was nasty tonight and I asked whats going on. Apparently nothing. Until he lost his shit. Made our children cry and treated me like filth.
I know its not high on the scale of treating people badly but he was really cruel. He insulted my weight. He was unfair to the children. I can't handle him anymore.


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2 years ago
Hope he apologises to u tomorrow and maybe can get to talking about what's really bothering him. If not go do something nice with your girls tomorrow like the movies and leave him at home

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2 years ago
<3 hugs mama

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2 years ago
Leave him. Seriously life is too short to spend it walking on egg shells, dealing with someone who cant committ , cheats, treats you bad or has anger issues that goes to everyone reading this man or woman. If you are not happy and things wont change leave. Your kids wil l be okay, it takes time to adjust but its better to be mentally, physically and emotionally happy than stuck with a man who isnt tjere and when he is does mental and emotional damage.

You can love someone but that doesnt mean you have to put up with being treated bad.

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2 years ago
He might be having an affair

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2 years ago
That was my first thought.

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2 years ago
♥ are you safe

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2 years ago
Yes, thank you.
He's just a pig. I don't want my daughters thinking it's ok to be treated poorly.

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2 years ago
You are right to feel that way! You deserve respect x

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2 years ago
Was this a one off, and it came out of nowhere or has it been creeping up more and more? Look after yourself xx

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2 years ago
All I can say is that if you can't leave then always respond with the thought of what your children will learn from the situation. If he says something insulting you could say how that makes you feel and that it was unnecessary. Even if they hear his shit they will realize you are standing up for yourself and making it known that it isn't acceptable. xx

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2 years ago
You and your kids deserve better. Start making a plan to leave. It will be hard, but so worth it in the end XXX

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2 years ago
Talk to him this whole situation has put extreme pressure on everyone

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2 years ago
He is telling you he wants you out his life

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2 years ago
He might have depression