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Do you gaslight people without knowing ?
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4 years ago
Well if you don't know, you sent answer this question 😂
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4 years ago
My ex didn’t know the word
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4 years ago
You sure he wasn't a narcissist
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4 years ago
What is gaslighting?
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4 years ago
Google it
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4 years ago
I had a partner who was abusive. He would twist things around to try and convince me I was the one who was abusive. He would try and convince me things hadn't happened. If I brought something up about his behavior towards me he would say I was imagining it, or i was a psycho. If I became suspicious he was cheating or using drugs, he'd say I was paranoid and a stalker. He would tell friends, family, people I worked with, these little stories about me being controlling, a liar, abusive to him, or paranoid, or having psychotic episodes, so when I eventually tried to reach out to someone about the abuse, they thought it was me because he'd gotten in first with his little sly comments over time and really ruined my character without me knowing.
Occasionally I actually thought everything was me overreacting and I was going crazy! I ended up having a breakdown and suffering anxiety and depression because of everything.
Occasionally I actually thought everything was me overreacting and I was going crazy! I ended up having a breakdown and suffering anxiety and depression because of everything.
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4 years ago
How could you not know?
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4 years ago
My ex never heard of the word
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4 years ago
^ My husband would have no clue what gas lighting is. He doesn't hang out on classy forums like this to find out these things. And if I didn't visit this site I'd have no idea about heaps of things that aren't relevant to our relationship. Some terms aren't general knowledge.
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4 years ago
God damn there are some bitchy know it all assholes on here tonight
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4 years ago
Some people say don’t have time to read or listen to your feelings
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4 years ago
That doesn't sound like gas lighting, just an insensitive partner
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4 years ago
I think my hubby and I do it to each other. It’s something we don’t mean to do but it’s a tone / attitude / way of speaking to one another. It’s horrible but it’s hard to break the habit and stop in the middle of doing it