So I'm in the same boat, I always buy the toys and have stayed quite tame, just some plain vibrators. A few weeks ago I got one of the multi-fun toys, they are all shaped different (might need to use imagination to picture how 😂) and can be used in different ways solo or with partner.

I am getting hubby to pick the next toy, his only just starting to let me play with his arse so see what happens over the next few weeks.. has taken 16yrs for us to get to this point

Just write SEX TOY over your naked body and let him play with you.

get a strap on and peg him. He will love it and you will too. a little reach around will help too

Start with a fleshlight or similar he can use on his own or you can use it on him. I wouldn't go straight to pegging especially if he hasn't done any back door play before, start with a selection of butt plugs and once he's OK with that bring up the pegging.

I would get him a vibrating cock ring you can also use them during sex.

Threesome??

I suggest you browse a sex shop site together and see what he might like to try. I’ve been with my husband for 15 years and about a year ago we introduced toys into our sex life to spice up a rather dull bedroom. Hubby had no clue what he wanted to try and so we looked together. We have quite the collection now. Awaiting some bondage items to arrive at the moment 😉

Can you clarify - toys for you to use on hubby, or toys to use together such as a dildo?