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What was the final straw that lead to you asking for a divorce?
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5 years ago
He got a vasectomy without discussing it with me first. He knew I really wanted another child, and him having no respect for me was it.
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5 years ago
The third time he hit me.
Should have left the first time.
Should have left the first time.
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5 years ago
At least you left. I’m still here but definitely next time.
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5 years ago
^for your own sake please get out of there 😢
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5 years ago
It's hard. For the first 8-12 Months it will REALLY push you. But then one day, the sun comes back out and you find yourself and you see your kids start acting like kids and enjoying life and that's when it hits you that your free, youve done the right thing and you will be so happy and proud and in love with your kids and youself.
Take that first step babe, noone else can do that for you. YOU CAN DO THIS xx
Take that first step babe, noone else can do that for you. YOU CAN DO THIS xx
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5 years ago
Thankyou x the last time was 6months ago the time before that was about 3 years ago. I’ve started taking steps. Im seeing a councillor, actually not for DV I have other stuff going on. Im sure that’s a contributing factor to the other things. I haven’t mentioned it to the councillor yet as I have other things I need to discuss first and didn’t want to go into counseling all guns blazing while pointing a finger.
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5 years ago
He molested our 5 year old dog
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5 years ago
😱
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5 years ago
I don’t know why but this is absolutely hilarious. What a piece of shit. He seriously needs help. He is too far gone. 🤭 I’m sure his next catch will be a bitch (pun intended). 😂😂😂😂😂
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5 years ago
Please tell me you called the RSPCA
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5 years ago
When he hit me and choked me because I found out he had been cheating. Which was obviously my fault because "if I was pregnant with a boy and not a girl he would be happy and wouldn't have needed her for comfort." Yup, that happened.
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5 years ago
His own insecurities and faults placed squarely on you because he is too wimpy to admit he is a loser. You should have told him that it was his sperm that chose the gender of the baby. So entirely unrelated to you. True thing. 😆
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5 years ago
That's exactly what I did, and then he got even more worked up because his mum backed me up. My daughter is 3 now and he hasn't even met her. He went and got another woman pregnant and she had a boy so he doesn't have anything to do with me and my daughter and we are so much better off with out him
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5 years ago
I’m sorry to hear that your daughter got such a deadbeat father. But she has you - a woman who can show her what she deserves and not to just take what she is given. She will realise when she is older how amazing you are to live through that. Cheers to the strong women forced to do a man’s job. Some boys forget how to turn into men and realise how much their life choices are theirs. I doubt the woman who had a boy with him is much happier. People like that don’t know how to love or take responsibility for their own actions.
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5 years ago
No words 😱
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5 years ago
Wow I'm so sorry Hun. For you and your beautiful little girl. Hugs ❤️
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5 years ago
He cropped me out of the photo he used on his hook up dating site.
He came home from work 3 days later to me gone.
He came home from work 3 days later to me gone.
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5 years ago
Holy shit
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5 years ago
Oh my
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5 years ago
Good on you for getting out 👍
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5 years ago
When we went away to work on our marriage and his only condition was for me to keep the house clean... and then dumping us at home because his affair partner phoned him to tell him she’s pregnant... she wasn’t. In that moment I knew my marriage was over, I moved out with the kids, they moved in together.
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5 years ago
Oh you poor thing, that truly sucks
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5 years ago
You're better of without him. Good on you for finding the courage
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5 years ago
We managed to get through the last year of our relationship by never seeing each other due to conflicting work schedules and his important social life. There had been no sex in years. He was very much absent in any part of mine and the kids lives.
We had ONE week where we saw each other every afternoon after work (the week football ends but summer sports haven't started yet) and we argued and yelled and screamed over "my parenting being shit" and how he thought I should burn to death my with cats. It was so irrational, by the end of the week I said I think I should move out. He didn't respond but drove off angrily, but when he came home that night he agreed. We have got on well ever since ironically! It was such a relief not to fake it anymore.
He even bought half the furniture for my new place 😂
We had ONE week where we saw each other every afternoon after work (the week football ends but summer sports haven't started yet) and we argued and yelled and screamed over "my parenting being shit" and how he thought I should burn to death my with cats. It was so irrational, by the end of the week I said I think I should move out. He didn't respond but drove off angrily, but when he came home that night he agreed. We have got on well ever since ironically! It was such a relief not to fake it anymore.
He even bought half the furniture for my new place 😂
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5 years ago
When he promised to get counselling for his drinking and work on why he cheated. He was sincere and I wasn't willing to put up with that any longer.
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5 years ago
*insincere
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5 years ago
I had a fistful of final straws - I seriously can’t remember the actual final one....