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Facebook "people you may know"

Answered 7 years ago

How do they decide who goes on this list? Obviously I understand the people who you have mutual friends with but I don't understand the randoms. I have actually had people I know pop up who I have no mutual friends with and are not contacts in my email or phone...it's kinda freaky!


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7 years ago
I shit you not but my doctor keeps appearing on the people i may know section. I should clarify that i havent seen that doctor in particular recently. He works at a medical centre with about 8 or 9 other doctors at any one time and i just see whoever is available at short notice. We have no mutual friends. None of the other doctors are suggested. It is kinda a bit creepy. Of course i wont add him. Gotta keep things professional 😂 But yeah. People you may know is one way of seeing how much the Internet is trqcking and profiling us.

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7 years ago
Do you make your appointments online?

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7 years ago
Maybe he's looking at your profile a lot.... a bit creepy but it might be setting him into the people you may know.

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7 years ago
is his name in your emails, text messages or contacts? FB scans those things.

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7 years ago
No- i make the appointments over the phone via my home phone. So the doctor i was talking about is not listed in my phone at all. The medical centre i go to isnt even listed! I have the tightest security on fb so i dont believe people can just scroll through my page or even look me up to start with. Plus i dont have the same name as my married name come to think of it on my fb profile! (Just never got around to changing it.) I do think phones read each other though so if you sort of hang out in the same place as someone active on fb maybe my phone noticed his while I was seeing another dr once?

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9 years ago
I was under the impression it is people who stalk you and your profile who come up in the "people you know" section. So if people are looking you up then their profile comes up as people you know. I have heard this a few times from various sources but no odea where the info came from. Sounds plausible though.

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7 years ago
Looking up somebody on facebook is not 'stalking'. unless its obsessive and unwanted.

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8 years ago
People who live near you, have similar likes to you, check in at the same places as you, looked at your page, mutual friends, former school mates, people from your "hometown," members of groups you belong to....

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8 years ago
If you sync your phone, also anyone whose # or email matches a FB account. Even if you only called or emailed them one time.

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7 years ago
also friends of friends if you have several of the same, even if not mutual friends.

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9 years ago
My partner does not have facebook, nor do I have any of his family or friends on mine yet Facebook keeps putting his ex girlfriend, who he split with 10 years ago, as someone I may know lol never met her and she moved to the otherside of the country not long after they split. My partner and I grew up on opposite sides of the city and met through chance when I practically fell into his arms trying to get off a crowded tram so still have no idea how facebook has made the connection.

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9 years ago
Could she be stalking you?

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9 years ago
Maybe, hadn't thought of that.

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9 years ago
Fb also suggest people you or in this case more likely your husband had searched as well. He prolly searched his ex for whatever reason and either deleted the search from the activity log or it's still there. Have a look.

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9 years ago
He doesn't have facebook and he doesnt use mine as it is only logged into on my phone and he refuses to touch it as he considers it too personal, he also will never get anything out of my handbag but will instead bring the whole thing to me lol. Apparently he would rather watch me go through labour again than get my purse out.

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7 years ago
Looking somebody up on facebook is not stalking them. Its an insult to people who are actually stalked to say that.

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7 years ago
also, how exactly would she know your name to 'stalk' you?

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9 years ago
Creepy isn't it. I hate when I'm looking at other websites like ikea or some kind of recipie then i log into facebook and it's all of a sudden suggesting the exact thing i was looking at as a page. The world can be scary lol

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9 years ago
Google and android and apple all have software in their devices and apps that track your Web use. FB and other companies pay big bucks to get that info. That's how ads on fb and other sites always seem to be for things you are interested in. Try "incognito" setting son your browser. It will lessen this if it bothers you

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9 years ago
^^^ my Facebook never advertise any good porn and that's what I mostly look up.

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9 years ago
excluding porn as it is an explicit website^^

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7 years ago
you can turn off google ads, but then you get porn.

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8 years ago
People You May Know are people on Facebook that you might know. We show you people based on mutual friends, work and education information, networks you’re part of, contacts you’ve imported and many other factors.

You might occasionally see people you don’t know or don’t want to be friends with. To remove them from People You May Know, click x next to their names. Facebook doesn't send friend requests to anyone that shows up in this list on your behalf.

Keep in mind that you should only send friend requests to people you have a real-life connection to, like your friends, family, coworkers or classmates.
Off Facebook website

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7 years ago
what they dont tell you though is that it also looks through your contacts, text messages, calendar etc to work these things out. Thats how peoples doctors and stuff like that keep popping up.

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7 years ago
I had blocked my partners ex as she kept sending me messages and stalking my profile. She ended up deleting her fb as their mutual friend had told us, like we cared anyway. So a few months later we were sitting at court and she popped up on my mutual friends list under a new name/profile! I have no mutual friends and she no longer had mutual friends with my partner. Legit she would have been stalking my fb to see what's been going on. I straight away blocked her new profile as well. I now am super suspicious of new people who pop up in my mutual friends as it's not above her to create fake accounts.

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8 years ago
It kept popping up my husbands ex wife! Drove me nuts as we have nothing to do with her, they don't have kids together, so there is no need for any contact!

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7 years ago
Maybe she was looking at your profile occasionally? So then fb started suggesting her to you.

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7 years ago
If I delete someone from the people I may know list, will I no longer show up on their list of people they may know?

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8 years ago
I clean people's houses for a living and they ALWAYS pop up on people I may know. I thought they were stalking me but apparently it's because Facebook knows I'm going to their house regularly through location settings so it really does just figure that we know each other!

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9 years ago
I'm sure your information is sold. Even if they say it isn't. A few years ago I had a break down over Facebook bringing up the asshole who raped me years ago. Him and his family were all "people I may know". I started having nightmares again and freaked out he found me. Even though I moved to another country. I ended up deleting my facebook and gave them a mouthful in the section asking why I was leaving. I was not happy with the memories resurfacing.

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9 years ago
There are ways to lessen who suggested or turn off the suggested friends in the settings if you'd like to get back to FB. I live really far away from everyone I know and FB keeps us connected. I also served up and blocked anyone i didn't want able to find me.

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9 years ago
Searched*

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8 years ago
This happened to me OMG! The guy who raped me popped up in my people you may know list and i was a wreck. Fucking hate that thing

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8 years ago
I'm bumping this because yesterday someone I used to know some years ago who I've had zero contact with, and who have no mutual friends with popped up as a my suggested friend. And a few weeks ago, a sub contractor who did some work in our newly renovated kitchen also strangely popped up. So, I think either they have been stalking me, or (more likely) their contacts list on their phones are linked to their FB and that is another way FB suggests likely friends.

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9 years ago
Common friends, near your location, similar checkins, same likes of groups, places etc...

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9 years ago
Anyone who checks your profile more than once also

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9 years ago
Even liking the same groups can do it. I have a few people from mum pages I have joined that come up in my suggested friends

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9 years ago
Maybe they have Fb stalked you???

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9 years ago
You've got common interests or past works or schools written in info. Same town any info you've put in can link you to skmeonee