We have been married 6 years and there has never been any kind of cheating on both ends. We had some issues with our ex’s in the beginning which got resolved. But she feels because we lied in the beginning about certain issues we were undoing with our ex partners now there is no trust.

We were ok for a while and now because I go have been going out more due to a recent job change. I am a stay at home dad and sometimes I just need a break here and there and go to a music store or something do distract myself. I wanted to go to a men’s group this morning and she said she now feels weird with me leaving the house a lot in her opinion. And she needs proof that’s where I am to be ok. She says I don’t have to agree with it but it’s how she feels and if that’s what works for her than I should be ok with it. I don’t know what to do on one hand I want to just fold and do it on the other makes me feel like a kid and micro managed marriage like I am walking on eggshells shells all the time. I love her but she has some serious trust issues even when I’m doing good things. All in the day and I always keep her posted and we are in constant communication, I have sent her pictures on the past just to put her at ease but now it needs to be a rule. Makes me feel like shouldn’t we have trust in our marriage too? She says this is how she will trust me. But like I said I’ve never given her a reason to feel like I’m not where I say I’m going. Please help!