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Husband going out all night

Answered 2 years ago

So my husband and I have been married for almost 3 years and have a 15 month old son. I work mornings and he works nights so we don’t have to have help with our son since we moved to California away from family. We have argued many times about this and I have repeatedly asked him to come home early if he goes out. But last night he calls me at 1030pm saying they were a little busy but he’d be home shortly. I passed out after putting our son to bed and doing homework. I woke up at 1am and he wasn’t home. So I called him and he was being very weird saying “I’m coming home to you” and super weird when I asked where he was he didn’t answer and wasn’t answering any of the questions I asked. We hung up and 30min later I called him again and he said the same thing... I was a little pissed off and asked what he was doing and he said your crazy and just freaked out on me. I’m with my boss “Justin” and we’re hanging out. Quit being crazy. I’m listening to him play guitar. And that’s when I asked him if he’d rather be listening to him play guitar or be with his family... and he just ignored it and went on to say I’m acting crazy and then Justin got on the phone saying that they’re just hanging out and I need to calm down. Then he doesn’t show up until 430am. I’m so mad that I just want to leave. We’ve had several arguments and even talks about divorce if this continues and I don’t see a change.


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2 years ago
that's super annoying. You two need another good and serious chat about it. Hope it works out the way you want OP. I'd be super annoyed and the behaviour is not on.

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2 years ago
I'm not one to ever say this straight away but that is one suss mother fucker!! I'd be doing some digging on that. I don't think he is with his boss. Hate to say it but, hope you're ok xx

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2 years ago
Wow maybe he was drunk or high, or having an affair and Justin is the cover. I would leave him. If he cant prioritise his family he isn't worth it. Sure going out is ok but not all night.

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2 years ago
Tell him to man up & grow a pair!! He has a 15 month old son at home. Sorry buddy, but your partying days are over for a while!!!!