Whats going on here? Need some advice....

Answered 5 years ago

So a while ago I had a really close friend and she used to come to my house alot for drinks/catch ups etc. A few months ago she and I were going out and my battery was flat on my phone so before we left I told her to call my husband so that he had her number to contact us if needed as he was staying home with our 2 girls. When my friend called my husband, another name came up (a random friend of his that he had supposedly been spending time with that I had never spoken to before)
So I didn't think much of it at the time but a few days later I quizzed my husband as to why her number came up as a bloke named Trevor. He immediately got defensive to the point where he literally smashed his phone in front of me. I never confronted my friend about it but since that night she has been really stand off ish and hardly contacts me at all anymore.
How can I be sure what is happening?

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5 years ago

I think you know already. Trevor is your friend and she has been fucking your husband. I’m sorry 🙁

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5 years ago

Sounds like what is happening sorry

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5 years ago

Your right, Trevor is a mutual friend who works with hubby and is also married so I don’t want to go asking him questions that may impede on his life or hubbys work relationships. I don’t want to come across as “that chick”

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5 years ago

I thought you had never Trevor? My thought was that he already has your friend’s number in his phone as ‘Trevor’ so as not to raise suspicions from you

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5 years ago

I think trevor just a cover story so they could muck around. Trevor probably knows nothing.

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5 years ago

Tell your husband your friend is pregnant. Then tell your friend he has herpes. Before you do this change their numbers of each other to another number you have already acquired with a cheap SIM card. Sit back and watch what they text to the other. Now you have the proof you need that your friend is a two faced bitch and your husband is a cheating scumbag. Then go to the doctor to get a mental health plan done so you can get some counselling for being betrayed by two people who should always be there for you and not fucking around behind your back.

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5 years ago

This is glorious. Yes. Do this. Fuck those guys!

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5 years ago

Yes. This. Absolutely this!

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5 years ago

This is brilliant!!!!!

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5 years ago

Not able to change numbers cause I hardly see my friend anymore and he doesn’t have a phone anymore after smashing it

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5 years ago

Definitely goto the doctors and get a mental health plan. I would discuss this with a councillor and make a decision from there.

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5 years ago

Is she also married? If yes this is suss otherwise she would use his real name in her phone.
Also him smashing his phone is a bit suss. He may have been hiding evidence.
I really hope for you your suspicions are wrong. Cheaters will keep cheating until they get caught so u could lay off for a bit and then start to gather evidence again. I would check if he has Kik or what’s app on his phone.
You also need to decide if u want to stay or go.

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5 years ago

Smashing his phone is a major overreaction. Or more to the point, destroying evidence.

I'm sorry, love 😪💙

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5 years ago

Oh this is so terrible, yes I’m sorry but I have to agree with the other posters. He is cheating on you with your friend. It’s disgraceful of them both.

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