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Feeling sexually attracted to my husbands friends - psycho analyse me please, my therapist is in quarantine.
Answered 4 years ago
Yeah so, I've never met these men, but I know about them through him. They worked together for years, and they know about me and our kids.
I'm not sure why, but I want to bang them. Not all of them, just the ones he was close to. And his old supervisor. I just want their dicks all up in my mouth and va-jay. WHY??
What is this about? I'm literally Facebook stalking them imagining filthy stuff. Meanwhile, my husband is just not doing it for me anymore. I love him SOOO much. But I can't get off thinking about him.
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4 years ago
You’r ovulating
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4 years ago
Is it possible you’ve romanticised these men through the stories he tells you about them and that’s why you fantasise about a sexual encounter with them? It’s like fantasising about a movie character or someone famous, you like the persona portrayed and so you want to have sex with that person. The Facebook stalking would be a direct result of you feeling like your marriage is no longer “doing it for you” and allowing you to view these men how you want to. It’s really easy to want someone who you haven’t met, you can make them into any person you like - be that good or bad.
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4 years ago
I should also add:
I’m in day 8 of self isolation and despite studying psychology I’m just talking out my ass here through pure boredom. To actually get a real reason why you’re doing this you do need to actually dig deeper into yourself. If this is self destructive behaviour you need to find a way to deal with and change it, if it isn’t then only continue it as a fantasy.
I’m in day 8 of self isolation and despite studying psychology I’m just talking out my ass here through pure boredom. To actually get a real reason why you’re doing this you do need to actually dig deeper into yourself. If this is self destructive behaviour you need to find a way to deal with and change it, if it isn’t then only continue it as a fantasy.
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4 years ago
The answer's in your question. Your husband doesn't do it for you anymore. Why??
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4 years ago
your mind is in fantasy land.
Fantasy land is ok.
Hang in there.
Chill. Do NOT send messages, email or anything.
Do NOT upset other peoples lives!!
Fantasy land is ok.
Hang in there.
Chill. Do NOT send messages, email or anything.
Do NOT upset other peoples lives!!
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4 years ago
It's difficult at this time. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder and I imagine you are spending more time together than usual. Try to prevent yourself from the habit you have got into through positive means. Treating yourself, building yourself up.
Although you may love your husband do you feel he loves you in a romantic sense (no need to answer just to help you think this through). Maybe having a chat with him about other stresses and ways you can support each other would help. That might lead to you being able to open up more to him ;)
Not easy in this current situation one step at a time and as mentioned its positive that you havent acted on your thoughts. Dig deep to find how to respond to your feelings, be kind to yourself.
Although you may love your husband do you feel he loves you in a romantic sense (no need to answer just to help you think this through). Maybe having a chat with him about other stresses and ways you can support each other would help. That might lead to you being able to open up more to him ;)
Not easy in this current situation one step at a time and as mentioned its positive that you havent acted on your thoughts. Dig deep to find how to respond to your feelings, be kind to yourself.
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4 years ago
As long as you don't act on it
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4 years ago
Maybe he's thinking about your mates like that. Fairs fair
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4 years ago
Your husband inot doing it for you any more is probably at the core of this. I don’t know the answer here but you need to find a way to turn those filthy thoughts about his friends into filthy thoughts about your husband. And stop the stalking.