Many many people have FWB, with and without their partner’s OK. Be ultra-discrete, don’t cross emotional boundaries and these can really help unbalanced sexual needs. It happens A LOT! Brisbane, Toowoomba, Townsville and smaller towns like Dalby. The internet is bristling with nice horny men. The inevitable scum are easy to spot and fun to flush out. Married men are best. They are discrete and don’t want a relationship. Young guys are all over too soon. Older ones often have great staying power and are very skilled. For max fun find a couple and test your girl-girl and your girl-boy-girl skills! Life is too short so get your very own gmail account and hit the internet!

I was in the very same position, but at the same time i used to catch him masturbating all the time. So i figured it was just me that was the problem. I left him a couple of years ago and dont regret it. The problem now is that my new partner who told me he loved sex everyday, is now the same as my husband was. Once or twice a month and thats it. I wonder if all men are this way or if its just what i do to them.

He’s cheating on you

Cuckold your husband. I cuckold mine. I get the most entence orgasms when fucking another Mann. My husband know I fuck other men and. Encourages me to do so.

Yes. Well
Seems like i have been living I'm denial and he thinks I'm a nagging whinging bitch. Yay me!

Would expect you husband to end you marriage if you didn't feel up for it?

My husband and I went through this. Turns out stress was causing him to not be able to perform. We would try and then he goes soft and that's it. At first I thought it was just me or he was having an affair. But after speaking to him he told me. He said it's embarrassing and was felt like less of a man. So a heart to heart first. Maybe he's holding back due to not his penis not cooperating. If it's something else, addiction, another woman then decide if you want to leave. But try talking first. I wish you all the best!

Can you get him to try viagra (just buy it - if it’s right in front of him he might be like what the hell). You could buy the female version too so he doesn’t feel he’s being singled out? Obviously not a long term solution but might be an ice breaker?

That is a pathetic reason to end a marriage.
If you break your vows you're nothing but a fraud and liar.

Honestly, I wouldn't leave my husband over it, but I would jeopardize my marriage by having an affair.
That is, if all other options have been exhausted.
What does he say when you try to talk to him about it?
Is he sympathetic and embarrassed? Or is he like tough s**t and tries to shift the blame?

I just want you to know your not alone. It’s a horrible feeling that eats you up. I haven’t left my husband but I should have. Sorry I don’t have a solution but I hope it helps knowing your not the only one going through it.

My hubby has a porn addiction and everything you e described here sounds exactly like what we went through. Is he secretive of his phone at all? I'd just have a quick peek through his internet history to rule it out.
And then have a serious discussion with him telling him something needs to be done because you can't go on like this. And demand a doctors appointment as a starting point, and maybe couples counselling.
Your self esteem will only get worse, not better, and you can't live like that.
I guarantee you there are so many men in the world who would LOVE to bang you. You know it. Don't forget it. You're worth more than this x

well what does he say when you tell him?> He must say something?!

I wouldn’t end my marriage over it. I would start with holding hands, re build intimacy from there. Take it slow and seek professional help.

does he smoke too much hooch? That can happen.
Or see a marriage counsellor.
He might nit be attracted to you anymore
He might be depressed
He might be too tired.
He miggt have a vitamin deficiency.
Perhaps a trip to the dr could help rule things out.
Best of luck

Yes.

Otherwise I’d marry my girlfriend best friends, it would be much easier and the house would be a billion times cleaner.

Our sex is what sets him apart from all my other intimate relationships.
(If he was sick or unable different story) but general lack of unrest I’d need it solved

Give him ultimatum. Either you fuck him or a male prostitute

HES looking at porn
Lose weight

You know there are other ways to have self pleasure. It's not exactly ideal but hey if you want that pleasure its better than nothing. Maybe even say to him if you wont do it then ill have to invest in some toys, if he calls you bluff go for it in front of him I bet he'll be interested pretty quick. Have you tried to spice it up? Make up and nice hair, lingerie? Toys in the bedroom that sort thing. I would hope he isn't cheating just lost interest due to work and stress however if he is getting it elsewhere of course he wont be interested. like I said I hope not but it's possible.

Wish my husband didn't want sex with me!!! I'm not kidding either!!! Since I had my hysterectomy, then menopause, I have zero desire. We have talked about it. We do have sex once a week!!! I just fake it, makes him happy!!! Maybe he has some problems down there and is too embarrassed to talk about it. Try and talk to him and tell him how you feel. It does help. I told my husband he missed out on the best years of my sexual life, (he was a Mummy's boy, and actually lived across the road from me), everywhere we went, the Mum was sure to be there. And when I begged for him to come on over "for a bit" it was always "have to take the old girl out to the casino"!!! So back then, we only had it once a week!!! It's a wonder we had kids!!! :) Seriously, talk to him, maybe he can re-assure you that it's not you personally and ask him how you can help. I love my husband dearly, and in a relationship, it's give and take!!! I know sex is a part of it, (so is trust and friendship) but I thought about him having an affair, but I could not stand that. My first husband slept about, and it broke my heart. I would rather put up, then lose him. But I guess a man can't fake it!!!! So maybe he has a medical issue!!! Is he taking medication??? That can cause problems. My husband was on medication and he couldn't come, painful for him (and me)!!! Don't have an affair, it will destroy you both. If you love him, be patient and TALK!!!!

Sounds like he has depression or cheating on you

Does he have a porn problem? I've seen many ladies on here write similar and porn turned out to be a contributor in many cases. It really affects their brain unfortunately. Google it if you want more information.

My husband is hugely affectionate, holding hands, snuggling etc. But he never has sex with me either, and of we do its 15 seconds worth of disappointment. I think he has some problems in that department but he's in denial and won't get help, meanwhile me getting upset and pissed off is not helping. But I feel crappy that he doesn't want to have sex with me or initiate anything and it makes me think about ending the marriage often.
I really think it's a deal breaker! Healthy sex life is an important part of marriage.

Low testosterone levels?

Yep, don't even have to think about it. It's not like i wouldn't try to get it back to start with but if I'd tried with no result I'd walk away. Humans are intimate creatures, some more than others. Just as you shouldn't force someone to have sex as often as you would like you shouldn't force someone to go without