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Riding my man
Answered 4 years ago
Im new to ‘on top’, and i think i love it, but am still scared and nervous to do it, my husband encourages me to get up there and once im on, things go well, he puts no pressure on me.
I grind, it works great for me... Could any more experienced ladies out there give me some tips, pointers, play sheets that i can keep in mind to lesson the nerves???
I want to be able to just look at him and grab him by the cock, suck it and jump on, but im too scared!! Help..
Also reverse cowgirl?! I havnt tried, want to, but fear that too..
Anyone want to share what they do to help me?
I am 37 and want to take charge of my sex life before its too late!
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4 years ago
I hate going on top. I have big thighs/legs and really struggle with getting high enough to get a good stroke going unless I am actually on my feet squatting over him in which case I manage about 2 minutes before my legs are burning from the strain 🤦♀️ gimme doggy style any day over girl on top!!
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4 years ago
Ensure your clit has good contact with him and grind away, you don't need to go up and down......make a few noises and he'll be happy !...... Also keep going until you cum and he also cums inside you..... he'll love it and if he likes doing it then you both will want to do it again.
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4 years ago
I rode my man last night. So good. He loves it! He has access to my boobs and clit which is also perfect for me 😜
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4 years ago
Spell your name lol!
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4 years ago
*Don’t bounce too high
*Put on a song with a good beat. Start off slow until you get the hang of it.
*Have a good motion going, whatever works for you. I find grinding on the way down helps.
*Don’t be afraid to watch a bit of porn for some educational purposes.
*Try different rhythms.
*Reverse cowgirl I find works easier if I grab onto his ankles. Gives a better view too apparently.
*Be confident in yourself. Just go with the flow. Riding your man is like riding a bike. It can take time for the training wheels to come off but you just have to keep trying until you’re confident enough to just go for it.
*Put on a song with a good beat. Start off slow until you get the hang of it.
*Have a good motion going, whatever works for you. I find grinding on the way down helps.
*Don’t be afraid to watch a bit of porn for some educational purposes.
*Try different rhythms.
*Reverse cowgirl I find works easier if I grab onto his ankles. Gives a better view too apparently.
*Be confident in yourself. Just go with the flow. Riding your man is like riding a bike. It can take time for the training wheels to come off but you just have to keep trying until you’re confident enough to just go for it.
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4 years ago
This is really great info, thanks! :)
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4 years ago
I wish my husband liked sex with me. It he doesn’t. I would do anything to have any kind of sex with my husband. He’s is not interested in me in the slightest 😖
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4 years ago
When I'm on top I just do whatever feels good for me and gets me off. Screw him, he can do whatever he wants afterwards to get off himself 😂 But usually he just wants me to keep doing what I'm doing lol
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4 years ago
What exactly are you scared of? My husband absolutely loves it when I’m on top and take control. I Love it too as I can set the pace and get tease him a little and it drives him totally crazy! Let those inhibitions go! Nothing to be scared of.