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My exes partner kept posting photos of my kids to her facebook while referring to them as "her boys". I kept totally calm. I picked up my phone and sent a well mannered text to the ex - Can you please tell Shelly that if she calls MY boys HER boys ever again I will drive down there and punch her fu****g face in. Cheers.
Just send her a message. Explain that you are doing your darnedest to keep pictures of your kids off the internet. It's not that you don't trust her or her friends and family but once pictures are up it becomes much easier for unsavoury characters to find them. You've been doing trying to make their internet footprint almost non existent and would appreciate her help with this. You think the pictures are lovely but would appreciate it if she would please take them down.
Be polite, flatter her. After all, you catch more flies with honey ;-)
Only 6 weeks and shes already playing happy family? She sounds crazy
My exs new partner looks 70 (in the shade) she posted pics & tagged him. One of his friends replied that they thought his grandma had passed a few years ago.... that it was good that his children got to meet her!
The problem solved it self.
Just ask her (very nicely) and tell her that while it is lovely that she has accepted your kids, it makes you uncomfortable to have pics of them posted to an account where you have no control over who sees your kids. If she doesn't listen, then report the pics to fb
So what happened? What did you do? Did the pics get removed? Are her and your ex still together?
Go see and her ask her nicely. Take some cake or some shit!
That's plan A. Plan B is to lose your shit with hubby not her, he needs to grow a pair.
Different situation my ex had pictures of the kids public, the picture was at a local park the back ground showed where we were (lived) he went to jail for dv related stuff. I was approached in the local shopping centre by some bloke he had pissed off inside. Unlike me i completely lost my shit. Police were called by bystanders . People need to understand sometimes there are conquences.
i would be livid!!! What is wrong with your ex? Any parent who is trying to play happy families after 6 weeks is a fool. She shouldn't have even met your children yet. They've already endured the break up between you and your ex which is one break up more than they should have been part of. So now they have to meet every new girlfriend he has and go through a dozen more break ups? Total lack of empathy and consideration on his part! And people wonder why their relationships go to pot over discipline and shared toys and porn - can't we all agree to spend several months ATLEAST getting to actually know somebody before you subject your kids to that person then you may just find out if they have a drug alcohol violence or abuse issue before they have access to your kids!!
I suppose you would rather her exclude your kids? Oh wait you would probably whinge about that!
Why can't she love them? You should stop being bitter and be happy that she loves your children enough to show them off on Facebook. It could be a lot worse.
Ask her to take the kids photos down as they are underage and unable to consent. I don’t allow photos of my kids online at all. I tell family and friends that I wouldn’t like all of my childhood photos out there for every Tim Dick & Harry to see. And that if when they turn 18 they choose to do so they can, but until then it’s not ok. FULLSTOP!
Keep emotion out if it; it’s just basic child protection and you are their mother.
I would just be asking her to remove them, if she doesn't that's out of line they are your children and should have asked both parents before posting anything. I ask friends first if I can post a picture if it has their kids in it.
It's called respect and understanding that not everyone wants their kids on Facebook or any type of social media.
I'd be upset to, say something your ex needs to step in if she doesn't not really a good start to a happy blended family if she can't be respectful
It's not safe to have pictures of your kids on Facebook. After reading advice from police I've removed all pictures of my kids. They have a right to privacy too.
Doesn’t give a shit about her ex but yet stalking Joan new gfs Facebook get the f**k outa here crazy bitch
I don't put my own kids in my profile pic. My child gets to decide when they are grown, what images of her are displayed on the web. While I am proud of their achievements, I do not need to plaster their image on Facebook nor family profile photos to reinforce how much I love them and am proud of them. I would be very upset if another adult displayed my image publicly like that whether it be an exes new squeeze, a family member or another parent.