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I just don’t know if I could be bothered.....?
Answered 5 years ago
Partner and I have been together for 5 years. We have 5 kids, none together. 1 mine 4 his. He doesn’t give a shit. He doesn’t help with cooking or cleaning or anything in general. I try to talk with him about it but he either check out or gets pissed off. I’ve been at this for years and I just don’t know if I could be fricken bothered anymore but we have joint finances so I can’t just bugger off. Anyone else been here?
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5 years ago
It's time to go....
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5 years ago
Similar situation I had 1 kid he had 5 even though he’s kids didn’t live with us I was always doing things for them which I didn’t mind.... he didn’t do a dam thing I was the cook the cleaner the driver the butler I even worked manual labour for him at his business never got paid. I thought to myself one day what am I his mother or his maid and realised I was both it’s not worth it to stay I was unhappy my kid was unhappy cause I was so busy taking care of him I didn’t have enough time for my child it never changes and I think you know that hence why you have posted this question.
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5 years ago
Get your ducks in order and get out. See a lawyer for advice about how to go about splitting your finances.
Hopefully you dont own property together ?
That can get messy.
Hopefully you dont own property together ?
That can get messy.
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5 years ago
Sort out the finances. Move out
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5 years ago
How many hours a week does he work ?
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5 years ago
5 on 5 off roster 10 hour shifts. home every night
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5 years ago
plus i work full time
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5 years ago
Babe he's not going to change and it's not going to get any better. Get your little ducks in a row and get the fuck out of there. Good luck xx
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5 years ago
I'd be buggering off. He has landed himself a mum and wife for his kids. I'd take your finances and leave..he won't change.