I've been with my partner 3 months now. I'm so happy, so far hes ticking all the boxes. After my marriage broke down I decided to get counseling and stay dating casually until I was ready to commit but also not just be in a relationship just for the sake of it. Now I've met a guy I can see myself with longterm and he says he feels the same way. We have lovely weekends together when our kids are with the other parent and have just recently started to introduce the kids slowly (and will continue to do it slowly).
My problem is that the deeper my feelings get for him the more anxiety feel when we're not together. I just dont know why and I'm struggling with this. How can I be happy and anxious at the same time?