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I put it inside the card. So, no its not anonymous. I guarantee though, unless they keep a spreadsheet of this, they'll forget who gave what. Unless it's an unusual amount. I have no idea who gave us how much. Or even who gave us none (we were all pretty young and broke then). The present is the bonus. The presence is the gift.
I think it should be anonymous. I would hate for people to feel compared or push themselves for something they truly can’t afford. People put too much pressure on people.
How much do you wanna put in ?
F**k that. Weddings are about marriage. Not about gifts.
Give what you want/ can. It's the card that counts.