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So what if a 40 year old woman uses fb?
My mum is always angry with me even tho I’m the only family member to give her any help at all. I’m always doing something wrong. Well I havnt spoken to her for 8 weeks and it’s been great. Being related doesn’t give people the right to treat you like shit. So you are not wrong for ignoring them. You deserve some peace in your life. Be happy.
If it was a friend doing this to you what would you do?
They say blood is thicker than , but its not do not allow toxic people to say in your life, family or not. It may be the slap in face they need to sort out what really matters. It may not and that's ok. Cause you will know that you matter and surround yourself with people that think you matter as well.
There wasn't really a way to determine right or wrong from the story lol
I think cutting them off is the best option here. It is obvious that you are never going to win so take yourself out of the game. May I suggest you get counselling. It is really helpful to be able to talk objectively about things happening in our lives and helps to make things clearer. If you are doubting yourself, go and talk to someone about it.
It sounds like people are gaslighting you. This is where someone maniupluates you into doubting your own sanity. You don't know wheather you are wrong or right. Block them all and go and see a counsellor to help you see through the maniupulation and confusion.