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Because their husband thinks it’s perfectly fine to buy whatever the f**k they want but scrutinise every last purchase their wife makes and it is exhausting and much easier to make it so you don’t have to justify every last dollar you spend. I throw receipts straight in the bin because I got so ducking tired of watching my husband check them over every time I get groceries. I work and keep this fu****g house hold together and although he doesn’t say so, his behaviour would indicate that he thinks I’m some gold digger who is out to spend all his money on myself. I haven’t been to the hair dresser in 5 years, do all my own maintenance myself, never go anywhere unless it’s with him and the kids ffs
addictions bring shame with them.
I don't hide it I just don't tell him. We both work,
have seperate bank accounts and live separately due to his wasteful, overspending selfish bs but If he thinks it's OK to spend in excess of $300 a week on smokes,alcohol and coffee n toasties on the way to work site, then winges he's broke for the rest of the week, then I can spend money on myself be it a coffee on the way to work at 5.30 am, or getting acrylic nails done or what ever the f**k want... Right now I'm buying MYSELF a $300 puppy for MY BIRTHDAY coz I can, it's my birthday present and he can go fk himself if he thinks his opinion matters
I work with a lady who does this and has done for years. I swear she only works to feed her online shopping habit! She’s in her early 60’s. Dunno what she’ll do when she retires and has to have them sent home to hubby. We always joke to her she’ll have to pop in every week to see us and pick up her contraband haha
You saw it on a knitting group so its older ladies doing this I assume? Men traditionally control the money and even though now women earn their own money some men are still horrible. I'm discovering this with my partner, we have most of our money separate but he still asks if I won lotto when I buy something for myself, even a chocolate bar. I never question what he spends his money on. We put our money together once when we went overseas and he was constantly watching what I was buying, couldn't even get my eyebrows waxed before going to a wedding he's so stingey. I will never share money with him again.
If husband has noticed wife has spent a ridiculous fortune of items of a similar nature and asked her to stop as that's money they could save, but she hides it instead, I would be under impression she has spending addiction and fulfilling her own spending needs are more important than her husband
Yeah it's weird.
I feel like its either a DV relationship, or their are some really deceitful women around.