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Am I holding out on sex or is this enough?

I have been having an affair with a man for the last 2 years and he is now saying we don’t have sex enough. We do it three times a week. His wife only has sex with him once a month. My husband and I have a very active sex life and normally make love every second day. I can’t keep up any more with my affair partner than I already am. Am I being too prudish with my affair partner or is this enough?

No judgement please.